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Charco
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 Posted - 2005/05/30 : 19:35:08
I totally agree with Hujimafuja.
Are you seriously going to turn down every girl you chat to unless your really attracted to the way she looks?
I've also found that if your going out with someone who is 'average' looking (Sorry, bad word to use there) and has a great personality, they grow more attractive -(If that makes sense to anyone..).
It feels better too because looks always fade with age....personality stays for good.
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Jax
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Posted - 2005/05/30 : 22:55:34
hit the nail on the head there mate
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SixFeet
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Posted - 2005/05/31 : 13:31:14
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Originally posted by mustapha:
I totally agree with Hujimafuja.
Are you seriously going to turn down every girl you chat to unless your really attracted to the way she looks?
I've also found that if your going out with someone who is 'average' looking (Sorry, bad word to use there) and has a great personality, they grow more attractive -(If that makes sense to anyone..).
It feels better too because looks always fade with age....personality stays for good.
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that is what i was saying, 'average' as you say is still ok looking but with a great personality so therefore attractive, i wasn't saying by finding them attractive, only super models apply, i was just saying finding someone with moderate looks and a great personality will outlast someone with great looks and the personality of a crayon
see where i was coming from now 
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Charco
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Posted - 2005/05/31 : 14:59:28
Ahhhh, confusion cleared. 
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Entity
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Posted - 2005/06/01 : 14:20:48
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Originally posted by SixFeet:
i know hujimafuja, i was just saying does anyone go out with someone that they don't feel attraction for?
no
One of my mates has met a girl who has something like 80% (don't quote me) burns all over her body, her face is a mess and she only has a couple of remaining fingers.
They're getting married next year. Goes to show you doesn't it? horses for courses.
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SixFeet
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Posted - 2005/06/02 : 01:40:20
read post number 33
what you have done is misinterpreted attraction for looks, more than looks produce attraction, hell i should know i have been with some pretty damn sexy females and i am over weight and ugly
attraction is a mixture of personality (and by that i mean everything from humour, self confidence, assurity, intellect etc) and looks and not neccersarily a fair balance of either one
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Brian K
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Posted - 2005/06/02 : 03:51:31
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Originally posted by Hujimafuja:
Woah!! Sixfeet was almost on the money - looks aren't THAT important -Even if you did fall from the very top of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down you should still be able to find someone.
you forgot 'and landed in a pile of what-the-f*ck at the bottom' 
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Entity
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Posted - 2005/06/02 : 17:19:47
^^^
And then the tree falls on your head. (not you personally )
SixFeet: Fair point you got there fella.
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Chrysostomou
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Posted - 2005/06/07 : 13:42:53
Looks are the first stage of attraction.. give it a couple of years the way they look doesn't really matter.. it is how they behave and how they change thoroughout the relationship..
They is someone out there for everyone, but you will only find that person when you least expect it...
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kathryn
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 Posted - 2005/06/07 : 17:10:56
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Originally posted by Chrysostomou:
Looks are the first stage of attraction.. give it a couple of years the way they look doesn't really matter.. it is how they behave and how they change thoroughout the relationship..
They is someone out there for everyone, but you will only find that person when you least expect it...
*Counseller Chrysostomou Signs Off*
A Garage is where your Car Lives, A House is where You Live, HARDCORE IS HOW YOU LIVE!!
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Thats some good advice there and from a bloke too!
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Charco
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Posted - 2005/06/07 : 21:12:05
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Originally posted by kathryn:
Thats some good advice there and from a bloke too!
kmcginty
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Chrysostomou
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Posted - 2005/06/07 : 21:16:07
quote:
Originally posted by kathryn:
[quote]Originally posted by Chrysostomou:
Looks are the first stage of attraction.. give it a couple of years the way they look doesn't really matter.. it is how they behave and how they change thoroughout the relationship..
They is someone out there for everyone, but you will only find that person when you least expect it...
*Counseller Chrysostomou Signs Off*
Thats some good advice there and from a bloke too!
kmcginty
Well.. What can i say.. Thanks Kathryn
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DarrenJ
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Posted - 2005/06/07 : 22:06:35
quote:
Originally posted by mustapha:
I totally agree with Hujimafuja.
Are you seriously going to turn down every girl you chat to unless your really attracted to the way she looks?
I've also found that if your going out with someone who is 'average' looking (Sorry, bad word to use there) and has a great personality, they grow more attractive -(If that makes sense to anyone..).
It feels better too because looks always fade with age....personality stays for good.
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Always remember to forget
The things that made you sad.
But never forget to remember
The things that made you glad.
Im sorry to say
But I need to be attracted to the girl to date her, and atleast know her
If I wanna hang out with a friend, I will go to my mates and play video games
Im not one of these society morons who needs a date to go to the movies and such
Now I know its not that hard to find someone your attracted to see (whatever your needs, sizes ect.)
Maybe like I, some might have trouble picking that specail kind up, but doesnt mean u need to run after people, who you think are average/not your kind.
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SixFeet
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Posted - 2005/06/08 : 01:37:18
yeah i can't stand people that get into a relationship for the sake of it, i got a couple of friends that go from girl to girl trying to get a relationship going, never works they alwyas get turned down and they never realise why. maybe cos you come off as desperate arseholes texting a girl you haven't spoken to in months saying you really like her and want to meet up after trying it with 3 of her friends
i don't feel i have to justify my existance to society by having to have a girlfriend
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Posted - 2005/06/08 : 04:07:57
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