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CheekyHalf
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United Kingdom
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 Posted - 2003/11/12 : 14:59:58
Stop taking so many E's (ofcourse this only works for some people ;))
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Dibstar
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 2003/11/12 : 18:00:19
I dunno how many of you have heard of s.a.d. (seasonal affective disorder), its where you get depressed when a certain season comes in, most people get it in winter, but for some reason every summer for about a fortnight i get really depressed - not eating not going out, thinking far too much: but NEVER EVER THINK IT WON'T END - it always does, and it actually makes you stronger afterwards (at least I found), and anyone who says they understand and hasn't been through it themselves it talking out of their arses - don't think? That's impossible, go out more - again last thing on your mind......
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strychnine
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Australia
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Posted - 2003/11/12 : 19:43:20
I get depressed at times. It's usually because I've gone and done something that I really should've done. It's not a pleasant experience, but it's only to be expected when you've got as many vices and addictions as I do.
My solution probably isn't the healthiest, but it works. A lifetime of emotional suppression has given me the ability to quickly turn depression, which takes ages to go away, into anger, which I can then unleash and release into whatever / whoever is convenient at the time. I feel great afterwards.
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dj-freedom
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 2003/11/13 : 06:14:16
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Originally posted by smilee:
take anti-depressants 
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Anti - depressants are BAD news people. I was given them a couple of years ago and they really ****ed with my head. They tried me on different sorts, eventually found some that wernt making me ill but they numb your mind, Ok, you're not so depressed but you seem to lose all emotion and thats bad news. As soon as I came off them, the depression just kicked straight back in with avengance! I think they are there to mask the problem but its still there when you come off them if it hasnt ben dealt with properly.
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dj-freedom
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 2003/11/13 : 06:16:20
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Originally posted by radiokate:
i suffered severely with depression about 2 years ago now, ended up with a really ba deating disorder (pls dont think it was cus of being fat cus when i say i had an eating disorder they think it was cus i was starving myself but it actually wasnt it was cus i got very depressed due to personal issues and i stopped eating for so long that when i started to again i cudnt keep anything down and by the end of it was was so used to not keeping anything down i wud make myself sick (ghastly state to be in) and in the end i made myself really ill for about 3 months cus i cudnt fight off infections and by the end of it id kinda climbed out of the little hole id put myself in. its a lot to do with self punishment and PERSONALLY i dont believe in anti-depressants as friends of mine who have been on them say that they felt as thou they still had the problem and they were just coasting over it and they cudnt express any emotions, which as whispering said...
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Originally posted by whispering:
I've read that the going out more thing only works with women, not with men. and it sayd that men should actually think more. Because women think too much their feelings and because of that they get depressed, but men tend to "block" their feelings with doing something, and becouse of that they get depressed... Although thats only one point of view, and cant apply everybody, as people are very diffrent...
aint all that gud cus ur jus blocking it out. personally i dont think u shud try forgetting about it by going out blah blah - obviously dont stop going out but take a few moments to jus sit back n b calm n think things thru cus u cant get over it til YOU want to. and blocking it out wont make it disapper, just make it jump back n bite u on the arse in the future - cant be good.
sorry for ma LOOOOONNNG post as per, i jus cany shut up.
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white_rabbit
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Australia
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Posted - 2003/11/13 : 09:48:21
I think everyone gets depressed once in a while.
I think the best thing to do is to talk openly with someone who you trust. An outsider can give you a different perspective on how to work things through.
And, I think this goes without saying, that MDMA and amphetamines cull much needed serotonin and dopamine levels. That in itself can be a large cause of depression.
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dagapman
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Canada
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Posted - 2003/11/13 : 13:03:16
so when im down.. i figure, **** the world, im not gonna let it get me down, and then i pump my tunes and get lost in my world of extra bass happy muzaak
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mr bishi
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Posted - 2003/11/13 : 20:28:18
A great man once said
To alcohol! The cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems.
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corinne87
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United Kingdom
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 Posted - 2003/11/14 : 06:04:35
get depressed all the time anti-depressants do work
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Comet
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United States
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 Posted - 2003/11/14 : 07:05:46
I have (or seem to have) Anxiety Disorder. I've felt the worse twice in my life and they both happened this year..
The first was in June right before we moved. I think that might have caused it. Man, was that horrible.. I didn't even get to enjoy the last few weeks at our old house.. For about 2 - 4 weeks, I was so insanely depressed and anxious. I got to the point of barely eating (and I love food) because I got full fast. I also got myself so tired from waking up from nightmares all the time. Well.. not really nightmares, just really vivid (real) dreams (most likely cause from my thinking).
What added to this pain was that I was having a very rough relationship with my girlfriend and saw less and less of her. As well as having no close friends to talk to at the time to really settle me down. Anyway, I got so bad I wanted to see the doctor because I thought it'd never go away. Just what he told me made me feel better. That it was just stress put on. Of course with my anxiety attacks I skewed it to be a lot worse than what I thought. The rest of that day, I felt really good. He also gave me anxiety pills to calm me down. I really don't think those worked.
But the next day, I felt that feeling all over again.. It seemed that after sleeping (and the vivid dreams) it brought back the feeling again. It was about 2 days after we had moved that it stopped. I didn't really notice it. It'd just happened.
So then the second time happened just a couple months ago! In august I believe. It was something I'd got that wasn't up to par at what I wanted (with anxiety, pickiness is a bitch). That started the newer one.. and some of you even might have noticed when I was offline for quite awhile. I didn't feel like using the computer.. it's really weird. And at those times, I don't feel like listening to any type of music I like. Just crap that's on the radio.
I think what I have learned from both of these experiences, is this. You should really not dig deep into things. Digging will get yourself to a dead end sooner or later. Live in the present and don't fret about the future. I like one thing someone told me, "When you get a nervous feeling, think of it as excitement and then you'll switch the whole thing 180."
I also learned that getting out and distracting you helps you a lot. It doesn't perminatly help, but it helps you get better. I just forget about stuff more when I'm with friends and playing games or such. Also, knowing I have something really cool to go to helps me really feel good about the future rather than nerves.
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Splix
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Posted - 2003/11/14 : 08:20:18
when i listen to happy hardcore (mostly cheese when im sad) i get all happy and im all like F**king wicked!!!!!!! and start dancin n stuff .
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radiokate
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Posted - 2003/11/14 : 14:59:37
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Originally posted by Comet:
I think what I have learned from both of these experiences, is this. You should really not dig deep into things. Digging will get yourself to a dead end sooner or later. Live in the present and don't fret about the future. I like one thing someone told me, "When you get a nervous feeling, think of it as excitement and then you'll switch the whole thing 180."
that is actually hell of a piece of advice. and thanx freedom, i know it was one of the worst things i had to do in my life - to actually convince myself to eat and maintain a heathy diet again, but now, well i dont know, i just enjoy it - because it was never actually an issue about the whole food thing, but it created itself into it - bizairelly. and i agree that it has definately made me a much stronger person.
also, freedom, your comment on anti-depressants, definately agree, cant be good, jus to shield u from ANY emotions, makes you unnatural... not right. i wish they werent so freely given out as it doesnt help a vast majority of depressed individuals.
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DJTruBass
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United Kingdom
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Posted - 2003/11/14 : 19:37:03
not rly a porblem for me, however if im feeling a bit :S,
then hhc isthe answer :D
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quik334
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Posted - 2003/11/14 : 19:57:12
im pretty sure i kno where its all comming from. Long distance relationship. yea yea yea i kno what ur all saying long distance relationships never last, well im gonna make it last but im always getting depressed from it. I come out of being depressed very often but its an everyday ordeal where i get depressed and i dont think anti-depressents are the way b/c then u become dependant on it
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radiokate
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Posted - 2003/11/16 : 15:53:58
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Originally posted by quik334:
im pretty sure i kno where its all comming from. Long distance relationship. yea yea yea i kno what ur all saying long distance relationships never last, well im gonna make it last but im always getting depressed from it. I come out of being depressed very often but its an everyday ordeal where i get depressed and i dont think anti-depressents are the way b/c then u become dependant on it
oh mate i can TOTALLY relate to you here, before me n my lad got together i was in a long distance relationship for 19 months and even thou we finished it wasnt to do with the distance it was personal things like - so go for it i totally believe that no matter what most people say it dont matter how far away u live if you WANT it to work it will. and as for the depression, i know where your coming from as it can get very lonely at times, u just gotta think theres another person in the relationship who is also lonely and missing you - dont let it get u down - what we used to do is try not to dwell on the time apart but always know when we were gna see it next n just look forward to that... keep yer head up :-)
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