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redwingz
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 Posted - 2008/09/10 : 10:00:04
So I fancy having a bit of a rant lol, heres why:
Last night my g/f broke up with me (ive never been dumped before). She has been being weird for a couple of weeks and i could tell things wernt the same so i asked her to tell me what was up, she insisted nothing was wrong, but i then got it out of her. 'Im not sure im ready for a boyfriend' she said!
Oh great, well I cant make her want to go out with me and I told her that if she didnt want me 100% then we would never work and would be living a lie. We didnt fall out or anything like that, I told her that I couldnt hate her and I was grateful that she told me now rather than stringing me along.
Some things that she said though really got to me, like 'I still want to see you', 'ive lost the best b/f i ever had', 'i dont want you to pull any1 else', ' im gunna get some credit on my phone so i can talk to you', 'im sorry', 'im really gunna miss you'
Its like she is saying 'I dont want you cause Im not ready, but no one else can have you and I still want you to be my friend'
I told her I cant see her again because it will be too hard, but it makes me think, if she really feels the way she says, then why break up with me?
Theres a line out of a film called Clerks which always makes me see the bright side of life after a break up and thats:
'Theres a million fine looking women in the world, but they dont all bring you lasagne at work, most of em just cheat on you'
It is so true, gorgeous girls are everywhere, did she cheat on me? NO. Did she ever really go out of her way to do something selfless and just for me (like the lasagne thing) No. And with my ex's thats always the case, so I know that I will move on, but I am really gutted, cause I really liked this one.
But i think when you look back on relationships with hindsight its easy to see that it was never going to work and there were too many flaws
ah well, at least Ive still got hardcore, that will never leave me.
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Project-Industrial
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Posted - 2008/09/10 : 10:04:52
girls come nd go man. as you said least you got your hardcore ;) dunno ya bird so cant tell wots wrong with her. just get a nice strong drink and a few proper hardcore tracks nd stomp ya confussion nd angre out ^^ you'll life nd find one even better ;)
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bulby_g
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Posted - 2008/09/10 : 10:17:51
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Originally posted by redwingz:
ah well, at least Ive still got hardcore, that will never leave me.
She didn't get the porn collection then. ;)
Sorry to hear about it mate but.. Good to hear you're coping with it the right way and not begging for her back or anything equally as sad. There could be a million reasons for it but I wouldn't trouble yourself with worrying about what they might be.
As you've said, forget about her and move on. I've stayed friends with several ex girlfriends and it can work but can also add complications to new relationships so I'd bare that in mind!
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redwingz
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Posted - 2008/09/10 : 10:24:14
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Originally posted by bulby_g:
quote:
Originally posted by redwingz:
ah well, at least Ive still got hardcore, that will never leave me.
She didn't get the porn collection then. ;)
Sorry to hear about it mate but.. Good to hear you're coping with it the right way and not begging for her back or anything equally as sad. There could be a million reasons for it but I wouldn't trouble yourself with worrying about what they might be.
As you've said, forget about her and move on. I've stayed friends with several ex girlfriends and it can work but can also add complications to new relationships so I'd bare that in mind!
haha she wernt into porn or anythin like that really.
Yeah id never beg for a girl back, my moto is 'If you have broke up once, you will break up again cause it happened for a reason'
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Ionosphere
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Posted - 2008/09/10 : 10:34:43
I've noticed that a great many women won't totally break off a relationship until they're absolutely certain that their next one is secure....
....dunno if that's what's going on with you mate.
and yeh, forget it and move on. It's not like you're married with kids and a home.
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Deverse
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Posted - 2008/09/10 : 10:54:01
Just think she has done the worse. Think that she has cheated on you and ****ed every dick that walks past. Move on and forget about the hoe. :) Cause no girl breaks it off for no reason, usually they find someone better and make up some ******** excuses to trick ya. Trust me girls are the worse. :P
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