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reenz
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Posted - 2008/10/15 : 18:07:18
oh really... oh, i thought you were serious.... pfft lol jk.... are you still trying to play up your "strangest member" tag or whatever it was hahaha
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Project-Industrial
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Posted - 2008/10/15 : 18:20:10
quote: Originally posted by reenz:
oh really... oh, i thought you were serious.... pfft lol jk.... are you still trying to play up your "strangest member" tag or whatever it was hahaha
weirdest member :) yer :D issit still working?
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SixFeet
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Posted - 2008/10/15 : 19:46:24
Great quote:
"Love is giving someone the power to hurt you terribly, and hoping they don't."
As far as personally, I do believe in love but I don't think it is that imporant in keeping a relationship together. Takes alot more than just that.
I'm 21, never been in love, never really been in a relationship, never had sex (not too bothered either really) despite a few opportunities. Rather shy with the ladies and tend to keep people away because of my own personal demons. Which pisses me off because I want to be in a relationship rather than go out and just bang random lasses. I sabotage possible relationships myself in fear of someone getting to close then get pissed off that I don't have a lass despite the fact I drive them away.
My own worst enemy really and need to get my head sorted and get my life checked because it's really starting to snowball on me.
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jenks
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Posted - 2008/10/15 : 23:40:08
quote: Originally posted by Lilley:
quote: Originally posted by jenks:
Every mental state is really just a physical one, so yeah, it does exist.
can you explain that statement? im struggling to work out how love is a physical state. It does show itself through physical actions but i think its very mental rather than physical
Mental states are physical states, they just happen in your brain. My point was that love isn't just an abstract concept, it's material too. So it exists whether you believe in it or not.
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Meph751
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Posted - 2008/10/16 : 07:15:19
quote: Originally posted by SixFeet:
I'm 21, never been in love, never really been in a relationship, never had sex (not too bothered either really) despite a few opportunities. Rather shy with the ladies and tend to keep people away because of my own personal demons. Which pisses me off because I want to be in a relationship rather than go out and just bang random lasses. I sabotage possible relationships myself in fear of someone getting to close then get pissed off that I don't have a lass despite the fact I drive them away.
My own worst enemy really and need to get my head sorted and get my life checked because it's really starting to snowball on me.
that sounds eerily familiar!
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im_dizzy
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Posted - 2008/10/17 : 13:09:39
I believe in love...
But as for soul mates... To be honest.. I think that I would say friends are more my soul mates....
As alot of you have prob heard this saying.. I once got it in an email....
"friends are forever, boys are whatever"
To me a soul mate is someone who is going to be there untill the end... Through thick and thin....
Someone you fall in love with.. may only be there for a short while... Even though your feelings could be there forever...
It's good to fall in love and be happy... Just don't expect it to be forever. Thats what I think anyway...
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FingazMc
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Posted - 2008/10/17 : 13:26:08
quote: Originally posted by im_dizzy:
I believe in love...
But as for soul mates... To be honest.. I think that I would say friends are more my soul mates....
Have you never been in love with your best mate? Obviously i mean someone of the opposite sex lol unless you swing like that of course.
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im_dizzy
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Posted - 2008/10/17 : 13:34:42
No... never been "in love" with one of my mates.... Love them all of corse...
But no.. i don't think I have ever loved them...
I've had crushes on some.. And got with a few... But never real love... Lol...
But no... I don't swing that way... Could be interesting though 
Could add a bit of variety to my life.
joking...
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FingazMc
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Posted - 2008/10/17 : 14:23:46
Lol,
Could be wortha try haha....
Well i was in love with my best friend thats why i do belive in soul mates theres no feeling like it. When people say you shouldnt get with friends i think thats big time BS. Just to clarify it was a female friend lol. :)
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Project-Industrial
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Posted - 2008/10/17 : 14:27:20
quote: Originally posted by FingazMc:
Lol,
Could be wortha try haha....
Well i was in love with my best friend thats why i do belive in soul mates theres no feeling like it. When people say you shouldnt get with friends i think thats big time BS. Just to clarify it was a female friend lol. :)
actually i think works out better if u were good friends before ;)
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im_dizzy
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Posted - 2008/10/17 : 14:32:43
Yer.. CAn work out better if you good friends before, but then if you break up.. You loose a really good friend too.
It's just down to if you think it is worth the risk i guess...
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Future_Shock
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Posted - 2008/10/17 : 18:00:24
quote: Originally posted by im_dizzy:
Yer.. CAn work out better if you good friends before, but then if you break up.. You loose a really good friend too.
It's just down to if you think it is worth the risk i guess...
my person opinion is that the person you're in a relationship with, you should treat them as a best friend before a girlfriend/boyfriend. Essentially thats what they are. But with the increase in affection. Any of my girl friends (whos who are JUST friends) ill do everything ill do with a girlfirned, bar sexual stuff and hooking up.
BTW rina, im not gonna fight with you, we are both stubborn as **** as we have learnt, i apologize if i offended you at all (we're friends, i dont want to do that) so just to clarify - everything i said was MY opinion, i do NOT consider it fact.
But its like the topic of religion. Anyone who is a devout christian will have the mindset of "i cant believe you dont think god exists" whether as someone like me (agnostic) will be like "how can you possibly believe in something you've never seen?" Just agree to disagree i guess? P.S. get the ****en internet back at home :)
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