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mj-dream
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 Posted - 2009/01/02 : 23:50:56
yeah its hard when you split from someone you love but love/relationships are never a straight forward thing it has its rough and it has its smooth.
to draw on a recent song which i adore the line 'love is not a victory march' pretty much always puts things into perspective for me.
its hard and feels like you have had your heart ripped from your chest and theres nothing else here for you but time is a healer and you will no doubt move on eventually :)
keep your chin up lad.
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jurkakm
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 01:00:25
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Originally posted by DOCTOR_HARDCORE_HTID:
Personally I think your weak, crying over a hoe you barley know. Best thing to do mate is try and shag her before she leaves or forgot about her and get get a bottle on vodka into yourself.
What a stupid thing to say to someone who is depressed. Not everyone is a tough drug addict gangsta motherf*cker who you seem to be. No offence but this is how you look when you come and talk about "hoes" and "be tough guy and drink vodka and do cocaine". That's just lame.
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Quicksilver
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 01:15:07
^ What he (jurkakm) said.
I don't have any advice to give you other than what has already been said (and not the DOCTOR's advice). Just do things that make you think of other things. Sitting alone ain't gonna help, unless you're playing an MMORPG :P, get out and do things. Start exercising if you don't, great way to feel better and to get the mind on other things.
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago and I still miss him like hell. We were only together for 6,5 months but he made such an impression on me and whenever I just sit for myself, listening to music, just surfing or playing a video game for an extended period and well, not chatting or talking to anyone, I think of him and that's when I get depressed, I would assume it's the same for you. Need to do social things or go outside and maybe take some photographs, exercise, shop, whatever! I bet you it will help you.
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Future_Shock
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 02:24:44
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Originally posted by Quicksilver:
^ What he (jurkakm) said.
I don't have any advice to give you other than what has already been said (and not the DOCTOR's advice). Just do things that make you think of other things. Sitting alone ain't gonna help, unless you're playing an MMORPG :P, get out and do things. Start exercising if you don't, great way to feel better and to get the mind on other things.
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago and I still miss him like hell. We were only together for 6,5 months but he made such an impression on me and whenever I just sit for myself, listening to music, just surfing or playing a video game for an extended period and well, not chatting or talking to anyone, I think of him and that's when I get depressed, I would assume it's the same for you. Need to do social things or go outside and maybe take some photographs, exercise, shop, whatever! I bet you it will help you.
Not that it's any of my business but i'm confused.
Are you a girl or gay?
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DOCTOR_HARDCORE_HTID
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 03:45:51
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Originally posted by jurkakm:
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Originally posted by DOCTOR_HARDCORE_HTID:
Personally I think your weak, crying over a hoe you barley know. Best thing to do mate is try and shag her before she leaves or forgot about her and get get a bottle on vodka into yourself.
What a stupid thing to say to someone who is depressed. Not everyone is a tough drug addict gangsta motherf*cker who you seem to be. No offence but this is how you look when you come and talk about "hoes" and "be tough guy and drink vodka and do cocaine". That's just lame.
Am sorry, but if you are depressed and male. Your a fagget or border line fagget.
Depression is all in the mind, hate life ? fix it. Bottle of good vodka and columbines finest and get out with the boyz for a mad crazzy few days. Does the world of good. The guy just seem like a bitch who needs a slap and to wake up. If she wanted to be his GF he would know by now. Hoes are easy to read. Who said i was tough ? only violent when some one steps up.
Doctor H isn't lame, he is a realist and knows to handle life and every thing it has to offer.
He should take my advice. First though get some nuts, son.
Look at it this way though. Imagine you did get to tap dat ass and she was shit ?
You wouldn't be in love no more.
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acidfluxxbass
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 04:35:12
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Originally posted by DOCTOR_HARDCORE_HTID:
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Originally posted by jurkakm:
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Originally posted by DOCTOR_HARDCORE_HTID:
Personally I think your weak, crying over a hoe you barley know. Best thing to do mate is try and shag her before she leaves or forgot about her and get get a bottle on vodka into yourself.
What a stupid thing to say to someone who is depressed. Not everyone is a tough drug addict gangsta motherf*cker who you seem to be. No offence but this is how you look when you come and talk about "hoes" and "be tough guy and drink vodka and do cocaine". That's just lame.
Am sorry, but if you are depressed and male. Your a fagget or border line fagget.
Depression is all in the mind, hate life ? fix it. Bottle of good vodka and columbines finest and get out with the boyz for a mad crazzy few days. Does the world of good. The guy just seem like a bitch who needs a slap and to wake up. If she wanted to be his GF he would know by now. Hoes are easy to read. Who said i was tough ? only violent when some one steps up.
Doctor H isn't lame, he is a realist and knows to handle life and every thing it has to offer.
He should take my advice. First though get some nuts, son.
Look at it this way though. Imagine you did get to tap dat ass and she was shit ?
You wouldn't be in love no more.
you, my son obviously have never been in love, thus you have no idea.
i feel the same way. its a passionate thing that grips your insides everything you feel it. everything you see that special person it pumps through your veins. unfortunately for you, you wont be findin out love until your balls drop. judging by your post above, that will be a long long wait.
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Squishy Star
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 04:45:22
well i have a question -
why are guys so insecure!?
i tell my dude i love him to bits and care about him so much
but still after being together for a few months now
he still asks me why i'd want to be with him when i could be with someone "better"..
does my head in!
and yesterday, didn't have my phone with me (left it at a friends house) and so missed all his calls and texts.
got in touch with him today, explained to him i didn't have my phone but he's still totally upset and is convinced he has done something wrong.
eh Love is indeed complicated. while it's still amazing, parts of love are tough - definitely not easy
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Meathead
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 05:02:55
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Originally posted by Squishy Star:
well i have a question -
why are guys so insecure!?
i tell my dude i love him to bits and care about him so much
but still after being together for a few months now
he still asks me why i'd want to be with him when i could be with someone "better"..
does my head in!
and yesterday, didn't have my phone with me (left it at a friends house) and so missed all his calls and texts.
got in touch with him today, explained to him i didn't have my phone but he's still totally upset and is convinced he has done something wrong.
eh Love is indeed complicated. while it's still amazing, parts of love are tough - definitely not easy
Woman gaining independence has obviously turned some men into emasculated wet wipes. The only solution - women return their rightful place in life.... the kitchen 
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Brian K
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 05:30:56
LOL
I want to make suicide. =P
umm not to be that guy, but you're what 15? you have your entire life still ahead of you. this is what the old folk call a learning experience.
you take the good you take the bad you take them both and there you have the facts of life.
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TypeR
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 05:52:43
join a street gang and go out and straight up smoke a fool.
it will make you feel better and give you hella street cred.
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jurkakm
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 10:14:32
Sry about my post, it was late friday night and i wasn't thinking clearly. Still, giving advice to drink or do drugs, ain't good advice. Also i m no fag or even i m not depressed, altough i still have problems. And yes, i can belive you can kill the pain with drugs, i have done drugs myself but still, this is just gonna delay solving the problem.
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Quicksilver
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 11:41:05
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Originally posted by Andy_Influx:
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Originally posted by Quicksilver:
^ What he (jurkakm) said.
I don't have any advice to give you other than what has already been said (and not the DOCTOR's advice). Just do things that make you think of other things. Sitting alone ain't gonna help, unless you're playing an MMORPG :P, get out and do things. Start exercising if you don't, great way to feel better and to get the mind on other things.
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago and I still miss him like hell. We were only together for 6,5 months but he made such an impression on me and whenever I just sit for myself, listening to music, just surfing or playing a video game for an extended period and well, not chatting or talking to anyone, I think of him and that's when I get depressed, I would assume it's the same for you. Need to do social things or go outside and maybe take some photographs, exercise, shop, whatever! I bet you it will help you.
Not that it's any of my business but i'm confused.
Are you a girl or gay?
I'm a guy. ;D
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jurkakm
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 11:59:06
As i said, i was sorry what i said, i was not trying to insult anybody, i was just saying that telling somebody " do drugs and problem solved" is not an advice. Yeah, in some matter yeah, problem is solved when you do drugs but later on drugs will become problem itself and when you are solved the drug problems, the old problems come up again. So it's just dead circle.
So what i was really saying was that he have to solve the problem with that girl for once and all. In case on mayor depression ( in case if you feel depressed all the time, like clinical depression which is not because temporal emotional state but chemical unbalance in brain caused by negative emotions) you should get help from proffesionals, drugs like anti-depressants might help in that case. But getting involved with drug abuse is bad.
Also i was saying that you should find something to do, like i started to making music, hardcore that i love. I m not good but that's the point, i have to improve, that motivates me to go on. Also listening hardcore overall gives me good feeling, not happy but it takes away that bad depressed feeling and gives me energy to go on.
Thats what i said.
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Quicksilver
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 12:01:50
jurkakm - What are you talking about? I haven't made fun of you, I agreed with you in my first message and the rest of the message was directed to Revs.
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jurkakm
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Posted - 2009/01/03 : 12:06:34
Oh i m sorry, i got pretty match mixed up with different repplies to my post.
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