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Smoogie Advanced Member
United Kingdom
6,504 posts Joined: Mar, 2006
Posted - 2009/02/11 : 18:59:59
I really like the girl but I still havn't met her...
As im sure a few people here know there is this girl I like who I met a month ago through my mate on msn & we have been talking on msn & texting often. I at last added her on Facebook & liked her pictures & she liked mine so that was a good start!
Its not that I don't trust girls but im warey of what they are like coz I always think they can do better than me coz I have mild Asperger's Syndrome which means I don't handdle social situations as well & have never lived up to the ultimate (****) ex or im not a 'bad boy' or I don't drive or have a high paid 'job' as these lads like to think they have so feel second best?
Nothing has happened but she didn't text me back for hours which although she did text me back it reminded me of past exes once they have given you the boot! I told her yesturday I would never hurt her & treat her like her last boyfriend & I loved her & she said it meant alot & was getting me a present & went on cam & I went out. I texted her late last night (11ish) & no text back & again this morning but still no text back so I got Dajvu from the past.
She did text me back later in the afternoon saying she was ill & has been alot latley (im not saying what though) so I take her word for it but im only going to give her one text later as don't want to be seen as clingy!
Is this an infatuation or a sign of what is to come? I have a sign that this could be the best thing to happen to me but I also have my eyes open! I tell you what though, im going to listen to some sick tunes all evening! My parents are off out this evening so I will have a few beers & annoy anyone on my msn lol
Here is a tune that I think will always remind me of the one I love! No matter what, I will have my tunes & they never let me down, unless it is some rappy tune like Sy & Unknown- What a great drug! That is a shit tune!
This tune I heard in a mix last week (full classics, I will give you the link if you ask) & this 'got' me!
Wilky Banned
United Kingdom
6,198 posts Joined: Mar, 2008
Posted - 2009/02/11 : 19:50:45
Mate, no matter what anyone says on here you have to go with the flo. Meet up, have a good time, have sex... forums arnt really the place for this stuff. no offence, u make urself look desperate and like a fool
Meph751 Advanced Member
United States
1,488 posts Joined: Dec, 2005
Posted - 2009/02/11 : 20:22:26
i hope this is the next installment of this ongoing relationship joke of yours and not an actual plea for help to solve a real problem
Smoogie Advanced Member
United Kingdom
6,504 posts Joined: Mar, 2006
Posted - 2009/02/11 : 20:49:34
It's alright, I had to express my self somewhere & where better than the happiest forum on Earth? I won't provide everyt update on whats going on don't worry...
Smoogie Advanced Member
United Kingdom
6,504 posts Joined: Mar, 2006
Posted - 2009/02/11 : 21:25:41
***Update*** Im ringing her at 10.00pm tell everyone you know!
Only joking guys, just spoke to her on msn & all is well! Going to play some good darn tunes to celebrate! I finally got Cixx- To da Bass now on the Madness EP! Proper sick (Cixx, get it ) Wooo!!!
whispering Moderator
Finland
8,453 posts Joined: Nov, 2002
Posted - 2009/02/11 : 21:31:52
Edit: wrote the reply before smoogies latest post, cant be arsed to delete now...
quote:Originally posted by Smoogie:
*stuff*
Its easy to fall in the hole of not being "enough". Dont go there, dont try to be anything she might like or anything like that, thats just lying to yourself.
I've had many ex's that have cheated, the thing is, you will never know for sure. Just dont think about it, if the relationship goes that way, there isnt really much you can do to change the course. When the "signs" come clear enough you should know. But its sometimes good to ask your mates if something is "normal". Its suprising how many plain obvious signs you will just let pass, cause youre so "in love" or some shit.
Not texting again was IMO a good move. Many of my (girl) friends, dont really like dating with someone and being in it 100%, but want to have other life too. Though usually relationships with those types of girls never end well IMO.
Alert moderatorEdited by - whispering on 2009/02/11 21:34:20
Smoogie Advanced Member
United Kingdom
6,504 posts Joined: Mar, 2006
Posted - 2009/02/11 : 21:50:40
quote:Originally posted by whispering:
Not texting again was IMO a good move. Many of my (girl) friends, dont really like dating with someone and being in it 100%, but want to have other life too. Though usually relationships with those types of girls never end well IMO.
Yer I hate those types of girls myself but she dosn't have much free texts left hence the reluctance to text back! We spoke on msn & all was well! She has given me permission to ring her at 10ish (nearly time) so I will ring her then but if her phone is switched off then I know she wants to sleep but that is ok because I can handle it!
Wilky Banned
United Kingdom
6,198 posts Joined: Mar, 2008
Posted - 2009/02/11 : 22:26:26
quote:Originally posted by Smoogie:
quote:Originally posted by whispering:
Not texting again was IMO a good move. Many of my (girl) friends, dont really like dating with someone and being in it 100%, but want to have other life too. Though usually relationships with those types of girls never end well IMO.
Yer I hate those types of girls myself but she dosn't have much free texts left hence the reluctance to text back! We spoke on msn & all was well! She has given me permission to ring her at 10ish (nearly time) so I will ring her then but if her phone is switched off then I know she wants to sleep but that is ok because I can handle it!
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Posted - 2009/02/11 : 18:59:59
I told her yesturday I would never hurt her & treat her like her last boyfriend & I loved her & she said it meant alot & was getting me a present & went on cam & I went out. I texted her late last night (11ish) & no text back & again this morning but still no text back so I got Dajvu from the past. 
Posted - 2009/02/11 : 21:25:41
) Wooo!!!
