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Wilky
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 Posted - 2010/08/25 : 16:02:28
well, i'm single again after an almost 5 year relationship!!
i left on friday due to not giving a shit anymore and having enough!!
im sorta seeing someone at work (not sure if thats a good thing) but we just taking it day by day.. we went for a drink on monday & she spent the last two nights at mine...
so, yea had a very strange week
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 16:33:30
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so, yea had a very strange week
....yeh, your kids have probably found it a strange week as well
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 16:36:50
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Originally posted by Wilky:
so, yea had a very strange week
....yeh, your kids have probably found it a strange week as well
I was thinking something similar lol. Best to just not even think about the whole topic.
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 16:40:55
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Originally posted by Hard2Get:
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Originally posted by Ionosphere:
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Originally posted by Wilky:
so, yea had a very strange week
....yeh, your kids have probably found it a strange week as well
I was thinking something similar lol. Best to just not even think about the whole topic.
ditto. selfish. Not giving a shit anymore about what. Your partner or your kids?
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Wilky
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 16:59:46
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Originally posted by Hard2Get:
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Originally posted by Ionosphere:
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Originally posted by Wilky:
so, yea had a very strange week
....yeh, your kids have probably found it a strange week as well
I was thinking something similar lol. Best to just not even think about the whole topic.
ditto. selfish. Not giving a shit anymore about what. Your partner or your kids?
still see my kids - not giving a shit about my ex anymore
my should i stay if im not in it for the right reasons?
yes i wont be seeing my kids everyday, but in a way that isnt much difference from before with work and that...
end of the day most relationships come to an end regardless of kids.. some people stay together for the 'kids' to me thats the wrong reasons..
plus theres a hell of alot more to it that i just didnt give a shit anymore, saying im sellfish is just you being the usual pricky self
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 17:19:04
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Originally posted by Wilky:
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Originally posted by acidfluxxbass:
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Originally posted by Hard2Get:
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Originally posted by Ionosphere:
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Originally posted by Wilky:
so, yea had a very strange week
....yeh, your kids have probably found it a strange week as well
I was thinking something similar lol. Best to just not even think about the whole topic.
ditto. selfish. Not giving a shit anymore about what. Your partner or your kids?
saying im sellfish is just you being the usual pricky self
pot. kettle.
it's understandable that it didn't work out and that both of you have to part ways. but the situation isn't that simple. you still have to treat each other with the utmost respect and can't have anything negative to say about each other, especially in front of the children. it's more difficult on them than it will ever be on you.
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 18:53:42
The CSA will hunt you down if u dont behave :p
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 18:56:19
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The CSA will hunt you down if u dont behave :p
im always behave, just cant live with a prick any longer.. she was dragging me down which was effecting my work, now i dont have that chipon my shoulder my life has changed, for the better
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 19:26:58
its a tricky one when children are in the mix - i know that feeling though when you're in a shit relationship and there seems no getting out of it for a long long time, then suddenly you're free, its such a weight lifted like throwing water on a desert (no offense to my ex-wife, im sure she feels the exact same lol, though there were no kids involved)
i hope it all works out for the best for all of you, it might not look like the best option from the outside to other people but I guess its a case of wieghing up how the arguing etc is going to effect the kids, as opposed to the arguing not happening in the first place.
as long as you're still there for them, plus they're pretty young right? so its not like they will know different
next time dont have kids with the wrong person? :P
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 19:53:03
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its a tricky one when children are in the mix - i know that feeling though when you're in a shit relationship and there seems no getting out of it for a long long time, then suddenly you're free, its such a weight lifted like throwing water on a desert (no offense to my ex-wife, im sure she feels the exact same lol, though there were no kids involved)
i hope it all works out for the best for all of you, it might not look like the best option from the outside to other people but I guess its a case of wieghing up how the arguing etc is going to effect the kids, as opposed to the arguing not happening in the first place.
as long as you're still there for them, plus they're pretty young right? so its not like they will know different
next time dont have kids with the wrong person? :P
no such thing as wrong or right person...
you are spot on with everything you've said tho.. its stay and let things get that bad break up is inevitable or break up anyway lol
anyway, i will be there for them but.... it all depends on her
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 19:57:55
thats one of the worst parts about it - women, even if they are the ones with the problem, seem to be the ones sided with.
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 20:44:50
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 22:09:51
Take care! Dunno what else to say because I cant even imagine what it'd be like to have kidZ but still! it's worse for kids to have parents who are only together for their sake because its uneasy, an early split is probably easier for them to adapt to! my er contraception was a result of my parents splitting up, and my older sisters had no problems with that! take care!
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 22:14:24
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Originally posted by DjTriquatra:
its a tricky one when children are in the mix - i know that feeling though when you're in a shit relationship and there seems no getting out of it for a long long time, then suddenly you're free, its such a weight lifted like throwing water on a desert (no offense to my ex-wife, im sure she feels the exact same lol, though there were no kids involved)
i hope it all works out for the best for all of you, it might not look like the best option from the outside to other people but I guess its a case of wieghing up how the arguing etc is going to effect the kids, as opposed to the arguing not happening in the first place.
as long as you're still there for them, plus they're pretty young right? so its not like they will know different
next time dont have kids with the wrong person? :P
Ex wife, then second wife and kid at the age of 26? Jeeez :P
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Posted - 2010/08/25 : 22:38:47
second time lucky eh?
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Posted - 2010/08/26 : 00:28:18
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second time lucky eh?
I guess so. You certainly should be living it up now, i mean, seriously, how fortunate do you have to be to live in the Lake District?
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