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Chris B
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Posted - 2004/12/17 : 11:50:09
After yet again going through the biggest lot of shit with bird problems i've given up ever finding the one thats right for me. Every time i get someone i feel i really understand it all turns out to be false. Not that all chicks are like that jus i feel guys never understand girls and vice versa. If you really like her your always better to say to her cos no good lookin girls stay single for long and if your not fast your last, and more than likely will be one of your mates that gets with her which will f**k you off bigtime. I never regret gettin a knockback cos at least you tried but waitin around til its too late you'll definitely regret.
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zippy
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Posted - 2004/12/17 : 11:59:54
if you an this girl are/were as close as you say,then share your feelings however uncomfortable it may be....if shes a friend she'll understand...and the worst she can say is 'no'
and who knows...mibee she felt you two gettin close aswell an got a fright...it may be what she wants too,shes jst afraid????
i remember at the time when i was that attatched to a girl like that...and like sum1 else said...they dont like the whole clingy dependant thing in my opinion.
take it easy
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Righteous9
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Posted - 2004/12/17 : 17:21:25
Purity! Its very popular nowadays! Makes relationships strong!
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Roberticus
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Posted - 2004/12/17 : 20:12:48
Hi, back after a "long" time
Í went to the school, but I couldn't find her... (I tried to phone her but she didn't answer...)
Anyway, thank you very much for the support Im getting from here, He was right the guy that told me of this forum, he said this forum had great people here (and this one is truly true).
quote: Does she laff at your jokes? Does she make lots of physical contact? Does she stroke her hair a lot? All are simple signals that she likes you and everyone does it.
Yes, she laughs at some of my jokes, and yes she strokes her hair quite alot when Im talking with her :)
quote: If you really like her your always better to say to her cos no good lookin girls stay single for long and if your not fast your last
Well, there is no much competition for her (you could say there is not at all). What I have heard Im the first one that has a crush on her... :)
And I have asked my friends what they think of her, and they say they wouldn't go for her (so their "taste" is not the same ;)), but I would go for her :) (or even die for her).
And it's not that she is the most beautiful, she is very cute to be exactly =)
quote: have a friend talk to her and be like "i have a feelin that (ur name) likes u. wut do u think of him." then see wut she says
That would be a good idea :P (thx for that)
I'll just have to wait until monday or wait until she logs in to MSN Messenger
once again: Thank you very much 
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Charco
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Posted - 2004/12/17 : 21:48:22
we're all glad to be of help 
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Mr LoSTiT
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Posted - 2004/12/17 : 22:55:17
it may be too late for me to add my two cents but, to be honest, i had the same problem a few years back and also posted on this website for advice,
the advice was good, however, the girl asked out my good friend insted of me,
my heart was completley destroyed, and even now it still hasent fully healed
so this is my advice to you (im verry sorry if it sounds rude)
GET OVER YOUR SHYNESS AND TELL HER HOW YOU TRULLY FEEL OR YOU WILL BURN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IT HAPPENED TO ME AND NOW IM GOING TO MAKE SURE IT DOESNT HAPPEN TO ANYONE ELSE ON THESE FOURMS!!!!!!!!!! (like im going to be effective anyways but, it's worth a shot)
just to see if it helps (once again im sorry if it sounds rude)
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Chris B
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Posted - 2004/12/18 : 11:40:33
Mate if as you say your the only one interested in her go for it, shes not gonna feel bad about you givin her some attention especially if nobody else is. All the best.
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whispering
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Posted - 2004/12/18 : 12:16:20
quote: Originally posted by Roberticus:
but Im not sure what kind of move I should take...
Well, Emmy (being a girl and all) can correct me if i'm wrong with this one. But in my experience, the best way to make the "first move", is when your e.g. sitting next to her talking, there will come those "quiet moments". When that moment comes, look straight to her eyes, and slowly start moving to the direction of her lips, bend your head a little bit too to the side and kiss her once, move a little bit back, if she smiles kiss her again once. The point is, that she can see that your going to kiss her before you actually kiss her. So if shes not intrested, she has an opportunity to look to another direction, or some other way to "avoid" you kissing her. Just make sure the moment is right :)
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Em Jay
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Posted - 2004/12/18 : 18:07:12
nought wrong with that! trust me she'll tell you if she doesnt want it...
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Roberticus
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Posted - 2004/12/19 : 18:08:32
some update of what's going on...
I has just gotten worse...
Everytime I try to talk to her on MSN Messenger, either she doesn't answer and logs out or she says hi and good bye the say time
If it continues like this, then I can't handle it anymore...
What should I actually do now? She won't talk normally to me anymore...
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Charco
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Posted - 2004/12/19 : 18:15:02
Thats tricky....Either she's playin hard-to-get...in a very odd way...which does my nut in...Or unfortunatly she's not interested....And is going about lettin you know in a selfish way (IMO).
IF she's not interested...choose your next victim!!! 
Seriously though....If things have turned out for the worse....slowly try to move on...or...ask her what her problem is or whats wrong.....and if that backfires....I didn't tell you to do it 
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Em Jay
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Posted - 2004/12/19 : 19:08:47
leave her alone. dont hassle her. you dont want to be known as the one that wont leave her alone do ya?!
new years resolution for you... get over her. and try to think positivly about everything...
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Charco
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Posted - 2004/12/19 : 19:10:29
There you go...youv'e advice from someone who knows what they're talkin about 
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Posted - 2004/12/19 : 19:10:35
Dude...honestly how long do you plan on dragging this out? Either you 'go in for the kill' and ask her out or kiss her/ Or you let her come to you. Shouldnt rack your brains so much for just one girl. You gotta do something now that totally determines just how much she likes/dislikes you. Dont be shy mang....go get it :-)
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Posted - 2004/12/19 : 19:13:22
quote: Originally posted by tunnelrush:
Dude...honestly how long do you plan on dragging this out? Either you 'go in for the kill' and ask her out or kiss her/ Or you let her come to you. Shouldnt rack your brains so much for just one girl. You gotta do something now that totally determines just how much she likes/dislikes you. Dont be shy mang....go get it :-)
"First you didnt want me to buy the horse, now you want me to take it back?! Make up your mind!"
no! leave her! she obviously doesnt want to speak to him. if she says hi and then bye! why do guys always have to do all the work? if she likes him she can go to him to ya know...
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