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Roberticus Advanced Member
Finland
697 posts Joined: Dec, 2004
Posted - 2005/06/12 : 01:04:09
Sometimes it might really hurts to have many friends...
Today I were to a town nearby to visit to some of my friends, and I had planned with many people that I would meet them.
I was about 5 hours with one group of people, and then I see some others of my friends and go to them and start talking with them. Or it was like that it was the others that came into the restaurant when we were about finished eating. Two of the girls that were in the first group got kind of angry when they saw the others come into the restaurant....
Then I started talking with the others and then the first group starts to walk away. And then I were with my other friends there and had a good chat about almost everything (I were with them about 1-2 hours). Then at a few occasions I saw the first group again and group number two said that I should also be abit with group 1. Then I went to group 1 and talked there and had fun, but those two girls were kind of pissed off because I had "left" with the other girls (=group 2). Then we started walking (we: group 1) to one of the girls' house and I went another way so that I could meet group 2 on the way. But then I got kind of stuck there with group 2, and had fun again and talked about almost anything.
Then the guys from group 1 said that they were to leave with the bus that leaves in 8 minutes (I had asked them if they would say to me when they left, so that I could take the same bus home).
On the way to the bus I stumbled upon one of the girls from group 1, and she said to me that she hated me (all though we had/are* very good friends).
And when I came home and logged on to msn, I started talking to the one that said she hated me. She was really pissed off because of that I were with the others too long, and that I should have been more with group 1 (hey, I were 5 hours with them, and only 1-2 hours with the others!).
Then I admited that I did abit wrong at the restaurant, but then she says: "Good for u, I don't really care anymore"
so the bottom line is, she is pissed off because I were with other friends, as I wouldn't have any authority to talk to others except her..
Now she won't talk to me anymore, she just ignores me...
what should I do?
*=I don't know yet if she still is a friend of mine, and I do really want to be her friend.
*too much text, I didn't check the spelling, and not really in the mood for it...*
SixFeet Advanced Member
United Kingdom
2,285 posts Joined: Jan, 2005
Posted - 2005/06/12 : 10:52:51
sounds like either she likes you and is pissed off youdidn't spend the whole day with her or she is an attention craving whorebag
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zippy Advanced Member
United Kingdom
920 posts Joined: Dec, 2004
Posted - 2005/06/12 : 12:13:33
i have same situation with my group of friends,who have all got jobs etc,and the group that i stayed on at school with.
my friends with jobs are my main group,but every noun again i try hang with the other group.
its certainly hard,and every noun again i do get the odd snidy wee comment made about ditching my group...but never anything as harsh as that,must suck mate!
Roberticus Advanced Member
Finland
697 posts Joined: Dec, 2004
Posted - 2005/06/12 : 13:30:46
thx for all the replies, but I still don't what to make of it...
I'll wait a couple of days and see what it turns out to be
What makes me wondering: The day before this event, I were with her and her friend (I stumbled upon them on my way home from work). They were on a shopping tour, and they said I should follow them, so why not (who would thank no to two girls who asks if I would join them?).
Then sometimes I said I should go home, but they were like I can't go, Im too funny to be let go. It ended that I had been with them over 4hours and finally got to go when they headed home. Don't get my wrong, it was really fun being with them then :), and I got to get a new friend (her friend) =)
and the next day when Im with them all is nice, then when Im with my other friends, she gets pissed off...
4+5=9hours with her n her friend
~1-2hours with my other friends
Im the only one who thinks this is abit weird?
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Chris B Advanced Member
United Kingdom
3,964 posts Joined: Dec, 2003
Posted - 2005/06/12 : 14:33:49
Sounds very childish all this you've got other mates so your not one of us anymore hahaha.
I've lived all over place now and everywhere you go you pick up a lot of really gd people. If diff mates of yours dont get along thats fair enough but if any of them have got somethin to say about you hangin about with who you want tell them to f**k off.
I do remember people bein a bit that way in school and stuff but believe me when you grow up things aint like that unless you make it that way.
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Cyberpunk Advanced Member
United States
540 posts Joined: Jan, 2005
Posted - 2005/06/12 : 22:00:17
You lost me dude! I think I get your point anyways. Yeah it's not easy being really popular (I'm talking from experience). If other groups want your attention, just be careful and try to make the right choice. If they're not ok with it they have to understand why, if they don't understand, then (sorry to break it to ya but....) they are probally not very good friends.
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Roberticus Advanced Member
Finland
697 posts Joined: Dec, 2004
Posted - 2005/06/13 : 08:08:10
Situation update:
The other girl hadn't even taken one slightest bit of offendation, as the "I hate you-girl" had done...
She asked me what I had told to group 2, cause yesterday they had met somewhere and group 2 had looked angrily upon "I hate you-girl", and now "IHY-girl" suspects that I had told group2 about our(mine and "IHY-girl") little fight we had (Which I haven't told anything about).
All her friends say she sometimes acts like this way, and that she will (eventually) calm down. But I do want to be her friend
but the thing is, do I want to be a friend with someone that can have such reactions? Answer: I don't know..
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tha_cheek Advanced Member
United Kingdom
631 posts Joined: May, 2005
Posted - 2005/06/13 : 22:39:01
iv not read it all but if its only one girl you shouldnt give a shit
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Stony McTony Advanced Member
United Kingdom
534 posts Joined: May, 2004
Posted - 2005/06/14 : 03:25:55
hmm i wish i could give some advice but the only frend i have is me trusty cactus whi......ah shit! knocked it off the side!!! looks like im dining alone tonite no but seriously im with baldo on this one, if this lass is actually pissed off cos ure hanging round with another group of ppl f*ck her, no ones choice but ure own who u choose to spend time with or how much time u choose to spend with em
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Roberticus Advanced Member
Finland
697 posts Joined: Dec, 2004
Posted - 2005/06/14 : 07:31:04
Looks like there won't be any friendship anymore, and it doesn't really hurt anymore. The thing is she Was one of my better friends, until this happened and at the same time I saw what kind of person she really is...
...not the kind I would want to spend alot of time with.
There are alot of group 2's friends of who I don't know who they are, so it might turn out that I'll get more friends from there.
"Sacrifice" 1 for many other, fair trade I'd say.
All of our ("IHY" and me) common friends are abit confused because of how she reacted, everyone thinks she acts like a "bitch".
They're all on my side in this conflict
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TypeR Advanced Member
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Posted - 2005/06/14 : 07:53:10
this is why I keep very few friends, that way lame drama doesn't happen. plus alot of people i know seem to live in other states anyway, so they aren't always around.
Roberticus Advanced Member
Finland
697 posts Joined: Dec, 2004
Posted - 2005/06/14 : 08:11:03
"The more people, the more fun" (sometimes).
Well now when it is summer, I'm not with my friends as much as when it is school.
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Posted - 2005/06/12 : 01:29:20
no but seriously im with baldo on this one, if this lass is actually pissed off cos ure hanging round with another group of ppl f*ck her, no ones choice but ure own who u choose to spend time with or how much time u choose to spend with em
