Deck-E-Dexx Average Member
United Kingdom
174 posts Joined: Jan, 2005
Posted - 2005/07/12 : 19:07:14
I dunno what to do!! I asked her wat if it was the other way about and she said "even if you cheated on me with my best friend i would still take you coz i cudnt let you go, D.T.I.D!"
hbf Junior Member
United Kingdom
114 posts Joined: May, 2005
Posted - 2005/07/12 : 19:42:32
I found out my g/f was cheetin on me, stayd with har and she did it again, the more i did for her the more she shat on me.
She was my hi school sweet-heart sorta thing, and she play'd on that to keep me, she said she loved my and all the bollox that goes with it and i was dumb enough to carry on. Eventuall she finished me for this fella but still kept me on a string, again i was so dumb lettin it carry on like that, thinking she would come back to me.
After a while i fecked it off and got a new bird, and my x got preggers. she try'd to say it was mine and harrast my new bird about it, she made my new birds life a misery so we split up, guess who my x's best friends after that? My new x! I got caught a few weeks later for possetion of drugs at school and got beat up by the guy my x was cheetin on me with shortly after. No lie, this was the worst thing i have ever experianced. I nearly threw averything away for a slut.
The rumor mill tells me she now has two kids at 21yrs old and has just had a miscarrage on her third, apparently shes on the game and on the smack. I have a good relationship with my girl, my own home and car and a good job. I see her in town occationally and i cant help but smile, a few years ago i couldn't do without her now i have everything she doesn't. I dont feel anything for her anymore, i dont even hate her, she ended up with what she deserved.
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hyperdance Advanced Member
United Kingdom
522 posts Joined: Jul, 2004
Posted - 2005/07/12 : 23:25:12
quote:Originally posted by hbf:
I found out my g/f was cheetin on me, stayd with har and she did it again, the more i did for her the more she shat on me.
she said she loved my and all the bollox that goes with it and i was dumb enough to carry on.
I dont feel anything for her anymore, i dont even hate her, she ended up with what she deserved.
End of the day some birds are for shaggin some for lookin at but only one for you, thats the one who makes you happy not the one that shits on ya. [email protected]
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sooo freakin true!!!!!!
dont give her the timw to do it again m8!!! sheel make u feel like the fool.
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kathryn Advanced Member
United Kingdom
6,520 posts Joined: Apr, 2005
Posted - 2005/07/13 : 11:43:11
quote:Originally posted by dj_excy:
wen im in a relationship and shit starts happening with ma gf i stay with them to see if it carries on then they end up finishing with me so my advice is finish with her! but its you decission m8!
clarke101 Advanced Member
United Kingdom
3,839 posts Joined: Jun, 2003
185 hardcore releases
Posted - 2005/07/13 : 13:19:23
quote:Originally posted by Deck-E-Dexx:
I dunno what to do!! I asked her wat if it was the other way about and she said "even if you cheated on me with my best friend i would still take you coz i cudnt let you go, D.T.I.D!"
maattee New Member
Australia
38 posts Joined: Jun, 2005
Posted - 2005/07/13 : 14:02:25
GIRLS OPPINION:
Thats a really tough situation that you are in!
But looking at what everyone else has said and what u had originally typed i would say that at the end of the day relationships are based on trust and if u dont trust her then u dont have a relationship. but i have to wonder if shes done anything else while uve been together to make you not trust her? Has she gotten together with any other guys while u have been together?
If u were thinking about haveing a baby together thats pretty huge and that shows trust and dedication. But like i said before u need trust to have a successful relationship otherwise for the rest of the time ur a couple u will be looking over ur shoulder wondering if shes sleeping with someone else.
B.C Advanced Member
United Kingdom
1,747 posts Joined: Jul, 2002
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Posted - 2005/07/13 : 14:23:15
quote:Originally posted by Deck-E-Dexx:
she said "even if you cheated on me with my best friend i would still take you coz i cudnt let you go, D.T.I.D!"
Man, thats a guilty statement if ever I heard one. Text flirting is nuffin, and I don't really understand what the problem is....ur obviously not that comfortable in the relationship if thats bothering you so much. BUT, if she is saying she would take you back if u cheated, she has obviously cheated and is hoping for forgiveness wen u find out!
Ditch her man, be a single guy, it's gotta be better than the unhappiness you're obviously experiencing now.
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LOL. well thats stupid coz i could take a picture of a girl friend and put it up. what do u want a picture of my VAGINA??? haha
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ryg0r Advanced Member
Australia
2,807 posts Joined: Aug, 2002
34 hardcore releases
Posted - 2005/07/14 : 02:19:32
quote:Originally posted by maattee:
LOL. well thats stupid coz i could take a picture of a girl friend and put it up.
what do u want a picture of my VAGINA???
haha
Well, if you are under 18, no nudity please. I dont want silver or myself to get arrested.
HardCore Latina Advanced Member
United States
611 posts Joined: Sep, 2004
Posted - 2005/07/14 : 03:49:02
That's digusting and disrespectful. Any person in a relationship shouldn't send any kind of flirty especial sexual txt to their "friends", people tend to use the phrase "oh, we're just friends nothing more" a little too much and turns out to be false. I personally would've dropped the person, life is too short to deal with BS and lies. Obviously, you don't trust her if you're going through her phone, but you did what you had to. However, Good luck! :)
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