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Deck-E-Dexx Average Member
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174 posts Joined: Jan, 2005
Posted - 2005/07/09 : 14:16:33
Ok i need some help and advice here. I was looking through my girlfriend phone last nite and the was some txt messages from this fella.
The msgs wer about the two of them sending dirty txts to each other, he only lives down the road from her.
So i asked her what was this all about she just said there just friends but he wants more and that nothing has happened between them.
I really love my girlfriend and she loves me but i cant stop thinkin bout the fcuking txts!!!!
What should i do? finish it or stay with her? my heads wrecked!!!
tha_cheek Advanced Member
United Kingdom
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 14:25:38
It does sound abit dodgy sending dirty txts to eachother, Im not one for relationship advice but i suggest you stick with her if ya reli like her
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Deck-E-Dexx Average Member
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 14:37:11
Is it wrong to read through your girlfriend phone? I don't trust her really! yea she send him a dirty txt. She said its not cheating though!
I've got that sick feeling in my stomach! were deadly serious like, we wer gona hav a baby bt we decided we wer too young.
clarke101 Advanced Member
United Kingdom
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 15:13:43
If you dont trust her there is no point. end of discussion. I know that sounds harsh but do you want to spend your time worrying what shes upto.
DarrenJ Advanced Member
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 15:22:56
maybe he is just noisy, i look thu my mates friends phone when he walks out the room sometimes to be noisy
i think alot of us would
i understand the sick feeling thu
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Triquatra Moderator
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 16:18:27
quote:Originally posted by clarke101:
If you dont trust her there is no point. end of discussion. I know that sounds harsh but do you want to spend your time worrying what shes upto.
sad but true, you either need to sort it out, or move on, if they were on her phone she has no excuse. i know that sick feeling inside and i know how much it sucks.
ask her what the hell she was thinking. women suck sometimes.
its always going to be in the back of your mind else, sounds like shes not to be trusted though.
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Jax Advanced Member
United Kingdom
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 17:58:45
id cut your losses now before its too late, she obvisually cant be trusted if u cant trust her and if she is doin things like that. id find urself a new misses in the mean time and abandon ship
djDMS Advanced Member
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 18:36:53
Give her the chance to stop it and let her explain herself. If you're not satisfied with her response, get out of there before you kill the relationship yourself - you obviously won't trust her anyway now.
What set the alarm bells ringing for me is that she knows this lad wants her but doesn't seem to be discouraging him, and unfortunately that makes her sound pretty guilty to me, regardless of her intentions.
Even if she's done nothing wrong, you'll have it hanging over you for ever so sort it out asap. If she loves you, she'll forget about him and concentrate on you. If she won't stop talking to the other guy, she's asking for trouble.
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Cyberpunk Advanced Member
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 20:56:01
Yup trust and communication are two things that keep a relationship going. Both partners have to be willing and able to do so if you want a long lasting relationship.
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whittle1 Advanced Member
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 21:27:37
Give her the benefit of the doubt
Trust her
BUT
if she has been sending dirty mesages back
finish it
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Hard2Get Advanced Member
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 22:06:24
quote:Originally posted by Deck-E-Dexx:
Is it wrong to read through your girlfriend phone? I don't trust her really! yea she send him a dirty txt. She said its not cheating though!
I've got that sick feeling in my stomach! were deadly serious like, we wer gona hav a baby bt we decided we wer too young.
Hardcore...nuff said... :-)
It's wrong to read your girlfreind's txt messages yeah, unless you are have a good reason to (that is, not out of distrust), even then it's not good.
If she sent him a dirty txt msg back, then there's something very wrong about that, she may not physically be cheating on you, but in her mind she is, and that is just as bad. Doing something like that shows complete disrespect for you as a boyfreind, and if she would not only do something like that, but think there is nothing wrong with that aswell, then she dosn't have the right idea bout what a relationship is all about.
If she truelly loved you she would not do a thing like that, it's a harsh thing to say but its true.
At the same time though, it depends how she meant the txt message, being as he likes her but she dosn't like him the same (as she says), then she might just be humouring him, kinda thing. But that's something you should be able to work out, from knowing her.
Apart from all that though, there is the problem of not trusting her, if you don't trust her because of you generally being untrusting, then that's a problem in itself, so no relationship you have will truelly work really, as trust is a fundamental thing of any relationship, a girlfreind relationship or a freind relationship.
Underloop Advanced Member
United Kingdom
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 23:33:36
quote:Originally posted by Dave Murray:
It's ok dude, she isnt shagging him ... she is shagging me.
Ah well it happens.
( Yes, i have nothing better to do )
You hussy!!!
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Triquatra Moderator
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Posted - 2005/07/09 : 23:42:35
if she says its not cheeting, then i suggest you start sending some dirty text messages to another girl, and see how she reacts...
do it...!!!
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