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clarke101
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 Posted - 2006/06/26 : 09:58:37
Maybe he has got something and is waiting for it to clear up.
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AlecMc112
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 Posted - 2006/06/26 : 10:10:23
Maybe it's you that is bad in bed lol no offence
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1up
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 10:21:17
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Originally posted by Squishy Star:
That sounds rather strange to me...what guy doesn't want a girl to go down on him? [I thought all guys were horny fuhks?!] Maybe he's gay or like bi-polar bi?
wth is that? LOL
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XtarsiA
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 11:00:33
this might be abit personal info...
but
can he get it up?
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iluvhrdcor
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 11:17:37
oh god i am so embarresed right now, but i really needed help. or answers. lol
maybe i really do suck in bed or maybe i am unattractive- i don't know!
i am always asking if he would like me to do different stuff, i even go ahead and do it but he says he is not into it, like i bought a pair of normal hand cuffs for a bit of fun, we used it once cause he didn't like them.
yeah when we finally do do it, like once in a blue moon, he gets it up staright away but that of course is when HE FEELS LIKE IT!
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kathryn
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 12:57:11
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Originally posted by XtarsiA:
this might be abit personal info...
but
can he get it up?
 sorry but that just made me laugh!
now i know some guys suffer with premature ejaculation and not being able to get 'hard' but what did you mean by 'get it up'?
are you thinking the girl is 'tight' so to speak?
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Mortis
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 13:02:18
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are you thinking the girl is 'tight' so to speak?
You know, for a minute then I thought you said "squeak"
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kathryn
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 13:02:57
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Originally posted by AlecMc112:
Maybe it's you that is bad in bed lol no offence
bad in bed?
then why not be open and honest and not make the other person feel better.
Then things could possibly be improved and then your both happy!
Hate it when people come out with that comment its so be-littling!
When you hear people say 'yeah its like having sex with a bag of spuds' or 'she just laid there thinking of England'
I found out my ex was cheating on me after we ended uur relationship and i was a rebound and he called me names that were just pathetic and he is just a scumbag!
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bulby_g
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 13:03:23
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Originally posted by kathryn:
what did you mean by 'get it up'?
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Originally posted by kathryn:
get 'hard'
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kathryn
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 13:13:09
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Originally posted by iluvhrdcor:
oh god i am so embarresed right now, but i really needed help. or answers. lol
maybe i really do suck in bed or maybe i am unattractive- i don't know!
i am always asking if he would like me to do different stuff, i even go ahead and do it but he says he is not into it, like i bought a pair of normal hand cuffs for a bit of fun, we used it once cause he didn't like them.
yeah when we finally do do it, like once in a blue moon, he gets it up staright away but that of course is when HE FEELS LIKE IT!
maybe i really do suck in bed!
To much info! 
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whispering
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 13:23:36
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Originally posted by iluvhrdcor:
so i hope this helps? it really makes me depressed. i have told him this too cause it makes me feel very unattractive, i feel that this is the problem or that he is bored, but ieven forfilled his dream and that was to dress up in suspenders and other sexy stuff but now i am to scared to cause i think i will be turned down like he has done in the passed cause he is to tired!
sorry i mean that i am not attractive but in between i guess, i dont know how to rate looks????
If this has been going on since you started dating. Id say the only option left is that hes really shy about intimate stuff. If that would be the case, id suggest some sex that doesnt have to lead to penetration. Some may fear not being good enough etc, so that should help to get into it without the fear of bad performance ;) Alcohol is good too. But in the end situations like that (not having sex) easily leads to breaking up. For me it sounds you have tryed, so he really did have multiply chances to do something, but chose not to.
As for the suspenders/handcuff thing, i think that is just wrong. When a girl is actually willing to get into all sorts of kinky stuff, the guy doesnt care!!! Its a cruel cruel world i tell you.
I highly doubt your looks have anything to do with it. You have been with him 7 months. It really cant be the case, and you seriously shouldnt let it get to you. Also you cannot possibly be bad at bed, any girl that is willing to try new things, and isnt really ashamed to talk about stuff just cant be. It's impossible. If everything else fails, remember, that you can always get lots of loving from Finland ;)
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Edited by - whispering on 2006/06/26 13:24:06 |
FriedRice
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 14:00:40
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Originally posted by eLASTIC:
Hes prolly thrashed from porn before you get to him ; )
HAHAHA!! Well said elastic i am sure thats exactly what she wants to hear :P
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1up
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 15:18:46
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Originally posted by whispering:
If everything else fails, remember, that you can always get lots of loving from Finland ;)
aussies do it better  its called "the land down under" for a reason! LOL
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Hard2Get
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 17:39:58
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Originally posted by iluvhrdcor:
oh god i am so embarresed right now, but i really needed help. or answers. lol
maybe i really do suck in bed or maybe i am unattractive- i don't know!
i am always asking if he would like me to do different stuff, i even go ahead and do it but he says he is not into it, like i bought a pair of normal hand cuffs for a bit of fun, we used it once cause he didn't like them.
yeah when we finally do do it, like once in a blue moon, he gets it up staright away but that of course is when HE FEELS LIKE IT!
Why would it be because your unnatractive? If you were unnatractive to him he wouldn't have gone out with you to begin with :P I don't understand how you could be bad in bed either, let alone how it could matter. If he likes you for you, then sleeping with you at all should be good regardless of how you go about it.
Clearly, as Bulby said, he does not appreciate you, and does not really deserve you in my opinion.
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Edited by - Hard2Get on 2006/06/26 17:40:26 |
Squishy Star
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Posted - 2006/06/26 : 19:40:54
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Originally posted by 1up:
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Originally posted by Squishy Star:
That sounds rather strange to me...what guy doesn't want a girl to go down on him? [I thought all guys were horny fuhks?!] Maybe he's gay or like bi-polar bi?
wth is that? LOL
Only Squishy comes up with shit like that... =D
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Originally posted by whispering:
If everything else fails, remember, that you can always get lots of loving from Finland ;)
aussies do it better its called "the land down under" for a reason! LOL
"Do you want to try an Aussie kiss? It's like a French kiss 'cept down under."
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