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Chris B
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Posted - 2006/08/31 : 21:51:48
quote: Originally posted by Capt.Neon-Coeval:
wow thats a hard one
Pretty simple to me captain, crying rape your very in the wrong and need to sort it out
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Chidda
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Posted - 2006/08/31 : 22:16:41
LOL Jeremy "i think the audience will agree with me on this one!?" Kyle
So funny, inbred pikeys who need to go on TV to get sum **** to talk some common sense into them to make everything fine.
Maybe you and your friends could b on the show jessikah?
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Em Jay
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Posted - 2006/08/31 : 22:39:27
You all seem so shocked, This is a common occurance in youngsters! I know of three scenarios where this has happened, Sick fuks.
What advice are you after here? Its been said, its simple, your mate needs to open her eyes, shes just proving to this older bloke that shes easy, he will now walk all over her, because he said jump, she said how high.
He has her wrapped round his lil pinky, got her in that position where he knows shes a love sick lil teenager who will do anything for a bit of man attention.
Its times like this in life where you need to do what you feels right, you all need to learn from your own mistakes. I made so many when I was younger, still making them now, still learning, but If I were you, and from what I know from my experience, I would shit on my girlfriend and tell her parents like has been suggested. Friends are worth risking sometimes, because you get to know if they really are your friends from testing them. If she comes round to understanding what you did, then everyones a winner. If she hates you for it. so be it, shes not the friend you want to have anyway...
woah complete tangent, you didnt even mention anything relating to losing friends haha sorry, I chat some shit!!!
but thats only what I would personally do, everyones different, and you should do what you feels right and learn from your own mistakes...
or just wait, it will all blow over eventually
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Em Jay
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Posted - 2006/08/31 : 22:40:42
ohhhh forgot to mention that ignorance is bliss. dont get involved unless you really have to
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Chris B
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Posted - 2006/08/31 : 23:31:30
quote: Originally posted by Em Jay:
He has her wrapped round his lil pinky, got her in that position where he knows shes a love sick lil teenager who will do anything for a bit of man attention.
Couldnt give a f*ck as i said if anythin happens to that guy cos of this the bloods on her hands.
Some slag went around saying a close friend of mine done it to her years ago, her dad was gonna kill him and she still kept her mouth shut the little tramp.
Same old cos shes a lass people are blamin the boy who told her to do it, f*ck that shit they both deserve shot never gonna be any good to anyone
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Em Jay
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Posted - 2006/08/31 : 23:40:20
people do grow up and change chris! Not everywhere is like Glasgow not everyone uses violence, this stuff happened when i was at school, and people now live to regret it, yet welcome their past as a reminder of how they were, how they choose not to be in the future and use it to their advantage! Its hopeless giving advice and opinions where you dont personally know people, but i do know what your saying baldrick. right now, they do appear to be as you describe no good to anyone. sometimes you have to look beyond present actions and look at their motives and reasonings. but thats where you and I differ, I sway more towards humanistic outlooks than you do, just differences in personalitys ennit
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Posted - 2006/08/31 : 23:41:05
quote: Originally posted by SixFeet:
advice?
she needs to be commited into retard classes. all 3 sound like morons
I'll 2nd that.
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Chris B
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Posted - 2006/08/31 : 23:46:39
quote: Originally posted by Em Jay:
this stuff happened when i was at school
Same here can name loadsa daft attention seekin wenchs i used to no, tellin boys there pregnant when there not, crying rape.
May think there only kids but there old enough to no what there doin.
Her ex could get arrested or anything, and where i lived in glasgow wasnt that bad and i no jess is from the north east which is the exact same and shes already said they've been kicking off.
For all we no someones heard about this right now like one of that girls family and will be goin livid, imagine your daughter or cousin said she'd been raped. People that arent normally violent could easily be driven to do some crazy stuff when someone does things like that to there family or they believe they have.
I'm sorry but i dont forgive people who do this kinda stuff, people have hard lifes but dont do selfish, manipulative stuff like that.
They may change but they've got it in them, if it was up to me they'd be wiped out.
Scum might try and pretend they change but they've always got it in them
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Chris B
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Posted - 2006/08/31 : 23:59:01
Infact here i go again this topics made me angry.
It's cos of lasses that cry rape like this that when people do be a victim to sex fiends they dont get convicted 90% of the time.
The cops, courts and everyone are so used to ********ters real victims arent gettin justice.
It's sick and thats all i've got to say on it
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Posted - 2006/09/01 : 00:00:31
To be fair it doesn't really matter if they change as they grow older, this is now and accusations like that can **** someones life up. Even if he doesn't get beaten (which is likely if family members find out), if a rumour gets out like that it will stick, and will be hard to get rid of.
Fair enough she made a mistake, but this is serious. Hopefully Jessikah will pass some of the opinions on and she can sort her head out, because in the end, it's only gonna work out worse on her. I know if I found out someone in my family had been raped my first thought would be that someone is in for some pain, what if someone does do something, and goes too far? She could ruin two people lives just because she let some prick tell her what to do. Luckily there is still time to stop it before it gets out of hand (as far as we know).
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Chris B
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Posted - 2006/09/01 : 00:05:24
quote: Originally posted by Em Jay:
but thats where you and I differ, I sway more towards humanistic outlooks than you do, just differences in personalitys ennit
Aye doll thats all good though, not gettin at you in anyway.
Just as jenks said i dont think many men could here a family member tell them they've been raped without going into blind rage.
I jus hope this boy doesnt become an innocent victim to these evil lies
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Posted - 2006/09/01 : 08:24:08
that guy is a dick and if she wants to be with someone like that then she is a dick to. sorry but thats the truth!
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Posted - 2006/09/02 : 11:45:31
quote: Originally posted by Jessikah:
I am asking people on this site because most of you are older and give better adivce then other people. my mate has got her self in to abit of a pickle. so please help me give her advice because i really dont know what to say to her..
Theres this lad she works with and she thinks hes gr8 (dont ask me why) but the thing is he dusnt like her x bf who she still has very strong feelings 4,
so the other day he told her 2 sort things out wiv her x, but he wanted her 2 basically tell him 2 leave her alone but she cudnt do it,
so last nite she met up with her x n the lad came dwn n saw his car,
everythin kicked off but the lad blackmailed her n he told her 2 tell her mam tht her x raped her or he wud tell her,
she told her but also sed it was tru cuz its not, but now shes scared jst incase he stirs more crap up
I dont know this lad or her x. i have told her that she is stupid for teling her mam that this lad rapped her since it is a very sirious allegation.
someone must have better advice then what i could give her ??
What a complete fook up he is and her!
She should of definetly NOT agreed to say such a serious accusation as her boyfriend told her to say!
Fook they are fookin well out of order!
The poor ex is probably gonna get done for some thing thats not even happened!
Its wound me up this and if i was you Jess i would tell your mates mum thats shes lying and have nothing to do with her!
Whats her bf gonna make her do next?
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Posted - 2006/09/02 : 12:16:17
quote: Originally posted by Em Jay:
You all seem so shocked, This is a common occurance in youngsters! I know of three scenarios where this has happened, Sick fuks.
I know of none of such incidents at all, not involving me or anyone I know.......I can't help but feel left out......Perhaps I need new mates?
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Posted - 2006/09/02 : 16:45:00
I have no friends like that either Si - is it good that we're not likely to be accused of rape wrongly, or is it bad that we're obviously not down with the cool kids?
Jessikah: tell your mate to get herself sorted! Her boyfriend is a sick idiot for even suggesting something like that, and she is either thick, scared of her boyfriend or also a sick idiot for agreing to say it. Either way they both need to be sorted and I seriously wouldn't consider anybody like that a friend - what if the next finger to be pointed was at you?
This lad could get his life messed up in so many ways. Not just from a physical attack, but if it gets in front of the authorities (I hope she's over 16 cos if not he's in serious shit) then the problem will stay with him for a very long time. Imagine it goes to court and shock horror there is a miscarriage of justice (in this country? never!!) and he goes down. Life isn't great for sex offenders inside. Say he gets out alive he is on the sex offenders register - how hard do you think it will be to get a job and integrate yourself back into society with that?
Other case, HE takes HER to court for slander.
Either way, one of them is going to end up witha label. Either him as a rapist, or her as a liar that no bloke would touch with a barge pole in case the same thing happened to him.
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