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Roberticus
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 Posted - 2006/12/17 : 00:39:24
I am mentally and emotionally broken...
My girlfriend (which I loved very much..) had been a couple of months ago to London with her cousin. There they had partied alot and got very drunk, and what does my girlfriend do? Yes, she goes to bed with some stranger and have sex...
When do I hear this? many weeks later... she had kept it a secret for a long time, until she finally came out with it. I was whooping mad and angry and very sad..
The relationship ended there... I could no longer trust her, if she did it once she could do it again...
And lately I've been trying to warm up again to be friends again, but today she came to the same party as I was at, and she sat with another guy there and they sat there alone almost all night/evening. It hurt when I saw her sitting on him and laughing and all that.
I am trying to forget her, but it is impossible to forget all the great time we had when it still was something good. :(
Even harder to forget when my friends told me at one occasion that we are very cute together, and fit for each other...
*End of rant*
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Xenochrome
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 01:20:59
That sucks big time, man.
Best to put it behind you and move on. I know that it's easier said than done, but you have to do it. Go out, have fun, meet some new people.
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Jax
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 01:39:28
at least she told you mate, that shows she has remorse, i know a lot of women out there would just keep it quiet.
best thing to do it what Xenochrome says, get out there, have some fun and meet some new people, you arnt the one in the wrong, soon enough you will meet someone just as good, if not better!
the only thing to do in a situation like this is to look forward, anything other than that is a step in the wrong direction
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Charco
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 02:23:11
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Originally posted by DJ_JaXoN:
at least she told you mate, that shows she has remorse, i know a lot of women out there would just keep it quiet.
best thing to do it what Xenochrome says, get out there, have some fun and meet some new people, you arnt the one in the wrong, soon enough you will meet someone just as good, if not better!
the only thing to do in a situation like this is to look forward, anything other than that is a step in the wrong direction
Amen.
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reenz
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 02:29:38
yep what Jaxon said! go out and have a bit of fun hang out with your friends try and forget about it, soon enough you will :)
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Roberticus
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 13:00:51
Thanks for the replies, wasn't actually expecting 'em to be honest..
An update, I asked her if she really is with that dude, and she said yes and she hadn't got the nerve to tell me about it...
Nice way of showing it, coming to a party and ruining the day for me by doing all that!
...I Hate Her with everything I have inside me!
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Mortis
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 13:09:48
That's harsh, their's know worse pain than can be inflicted by the opposite sex.
JaXoN is right in my opinon, go out and have some fun, but don't do the whole rebound sex thing...it doesn't help. At the end of the day if you where really ment to be & she really loved you she wouldn't have done that in the first place. Sure it might hurt now but you'll be better off in the long run.
Hang in there.
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clarke101
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 13:30:39
do her best mate 
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swansea247
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 13:50:02
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Originally posted by clarke101:
do her best mate
works everytime :D
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kathryn
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 13:56:48
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Originally posted by swansea247:
quote:
Originally posted by clarke101:
do her best mate
works everytime :D
revenge isnt always sweet though guys!
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Xenochrome
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 Posted - 2006/12/17 : 14:32:54
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Originally posted by clarke101:
do her best mate
Boh!!!
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Oomph
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 15:08:18
Man all i have to say is that life if not fare.
There's up's and down's but shit happens.
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jenks
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Posted - 2006/12/17 : 17:57:04
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Originally posted by clarke101:
do her best mate
Beat me to it!
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DJ E-Rok
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Russia
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Posted - 2006/12/18 : 09:12:24
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...I Hate Her with everything I have inside me!
a small man green wise once said, anger leads to hate, hate... leads to suffering
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charlieee
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Posted - 2006/12/18 : 09:55:09
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Originally posted by DJ E-Rok:
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...I Hate Her with everything I have inside me!
a small man green wise once said, anger leads to hate, hate... leads to suffering
lol luv dats saying man.
soz to hear dat man, just try and go out and have fun, pretty much wat everyone has said
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DarrenJ
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Posted - 2006/12/18 : 10:55:52
females are evil
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