All users can post new topics in this forum. All users can reply to topics in this forum
Author
Thread
Revs Advanced Member
Austria
2,584 posts Joined: Oct, 2008
Posted - 2009/01/02 : 12:35:01
I'm sure they are already some similar topics, but yeah..
Just post your feelings here.
It hurts. I wanna cry. I wanna destroy myself. I wanna kill myself, make suicide. I don't see any way to get this problem out of the world. I don't see any solution. Why does love always hurt so much ? .. Life sux.
Revs Advanced Member
Austria
2,584 posts Joined: Oct, 2008
Posted - 2009/01/02 : 19:05:00
I haven't really been rejected.. I'm not even together with her.. but she's my best friend.. and I ****ed up everything because I'm a ****ing idiot.
Yea, I keep myself busy with music, webdesign and other stuff.. but it still ****ing hurts, I'm thinking about it all the time..
It's like there's no solution, no way to get out of this shit, no life without her..
Meathead Advanced Member
United Kingdom
4,217 posts Joined: Sep, 2006
Posted - 2009/01/02 : 19:34:39
Ok cliche but time heals all wounds.
Now that i've said my more caring helpful piece i can say this... man up! Its not the end of the world. So you f*cked things up with a girl you wern't even with and now you wanna "make suicide" I know youre only what? 15? 16? But grow up mate. You don't even know what love is yet.
Btw, time - Mary Poppins they'll both sort you out no problem. If not i recommend Bedknobs & Broomsticks or Casper The Friendly Ghost.
__________________________________
"Music creates order out of chaos; for rhythm imposes unanimity upon the divergent, melody imposes continuity upon the disjointed, and harmony imposes compatibility upon the incongruous." -Sir Yehudi Menuhin
Revs Advanced Member
Austria
2,584 posts Joined: Oct, 2008
Posted - 2009/01/02 : 20:32:12
I do know what real love is. And this is the first girl I really loved. I didn't care about her appearance, it was her character. And I know what the difference is now.
The thing is not that I've only ****ed up with her, but also that I've lost my best friend.
quote:Originally posted by DJ Revs:
I haven't really been rejected.. I'm not even together with her.. but she's my best friend.. and I ****ed up everything because I'm a ****ing idiot.
Yea, I keep myself busy with music, webdesign and other stuff.. but it still ****ing hurts, I'm thinking about it all the time..
It's like there's no solution, no way to get out of this shit, no life without her..
Firstly you are doing all the wrong things to take your mind of it.
Yeah sure music is good, but webdesign and other stuff isn't going to take your pain away.
Getting layed into the vodka and cocaine will. Out much as possible having bitches left, right and center.
Only then can you move on. After you have enjoyed not having her around as your lover and soul mate.
Cheer up mate you only live once.
quote:i know how u feel. ive fancied someone since i was 15 until present and im now 18 XD haha
Face it son shine if you haven't tapped dat ass yet you are never going to.
jurkakm New Member
Estonia
21 posts Joined: Dec, 2008
Posted - 2009/01/02 : 22:05:01
Well, i think you are giving up to easily, i mean, she rejected you and you are now just sitting and blaming yourself. Just try to bull yourself together and reconsider everything, like if it is worth it all.
Its not easy, its hard but this is most likely the only solution. You may consider consulting with psyhciatrist ( i know, i wrote that wrong, cause my english sucks) . Just keep things moving.
Revs Advanced Member
Austria
2,584 posts Joined: Oct, 2008
Posted - 2009/01/02 : 22:13:55
I'm never gonna give her up, and we're still good friends, we talk everyday, it's just that I will probably never have a chance to be together with her …
After everything I've done, I'm still wondering why she even TALKS to me *.*
The prob is that it's like the 50th time that these kind of things happen, that we came in fight..
jurkakm New Member
Estonia
21 posts Joined: Dec, 2008
Posted - 2009/01/02 : 22:28:33
Ah sry, i got it little bit wrong as you wrote you also had lost her as your best friend. Well as i am myself pretty match similiar situation, i m not probably the best person to give you advice but do the same thing i do, live for the moment, try to focus on things that make you happy, don't get involved with drugs or anything, be pure as possible and free your mind up.
This way you can think out the solution yourself. Again, it's not easy. Ofcourse, don't fall to deep into this " live for the moment " , try to think sober just let the problems go.
Sry if my text is hard to understand.
Revs Advanced Member
Austria
2,584 posts Joined: Oct, 2008
Posted - 2009/01/02 : 22:46:33
Well we still talk and meet each other, but it's not like 6 months ago … we're still friends but I kinda 'lost' her as my best friend.
Yeah, you're right. I should concentrate on other things. But I don't want to give up. I will never give up !
And I will also never touch drugs or some sh*t like that, I'm not that kind of person who starts taking pills or drinking alcohol when he's in trubble ( well I do drink alc, but not when I have problems lol ).
The other problem is that she doesn't live here anymore … she might come back in 7 months. But yeah.. she's here on holiday and she leaves in 2-3 days. I don't know what to do. She has almost no time. Damn I love her :( .
Wish you good luck too, and don't worry you're easy to understand ;-) .
quote:Originally posted by DJ Revs:
Well we still talk and meet each other, but it's not like 6 months ago … we're still friends but I kinda 'lost' her as my best friend.
Yeah, you're right. I should concentrate on other things. But I don't want to give up. I will never give up !
And I will also never touch drugs or some sh*t like that, I'm not that kind of person who starts taking pills or drinking alcohol when he's in trubble ( well I do drink alc, but not when I have problems lol ).
The other problem is that she doesn't live here anymore … she might come back in 7 months. But yeah.. she's here on holiday and she leaves in 2-3 days. I don't know what to do. She has almost no time. Damn I love her :( .
Wish you good luck too, and don't worry you're easy to understand ;-) .
Your not a real man then.
No man with self respect would sit and cry over some hoe, they would go out enjoy them self.
If she doesn't live where you are and she on holiday you dont know her that well, do you ?
Personally I think your weak, crying over a hoe you barley know. Best thing to do mate is try and shag her before she leaves or forgot about her and get get a bottle on vodka into yourself.
__________________________________
The Doctor !!
Alert moderatorEdited by - DOCTOR_HARDCORE_HTID on 2009/01/02 22:59:54
Revs Advanced Member
Austria
2,584 posts Joined: Oct, 2008
Posted - 2009/01/02 : 23:07:45
I know her very well, she's probably the person who knows me the best. She used to live here. She lives like 4 hours away from here now. If she would be my girlfriend I would visit her every weekend there and maybe also under the week ( who cares about school ? lol ).
Printer friendly
Posted - 2009/01/02 : 12:35:01
