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Smoogie
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 Posted - 2009/01/10 : 19:03:33
Talking to this girl on msn. Weighing up the pros & cons...
Havn't had an official girlfrind since late 2006 but had seen a few girls on & off...
Anyway should I get into a relationship? I have been feeling like I want a girl latley but then again im warey pf getting cheated on & loosing my freedom & mates & ending up getting hurt if it all goes wrong. You know, the usual thing. I keep a safe distance...
Anyway, shall I get in arelationship or back out? Wjats your advice? There are some lovers here who im sure will help me out!
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Revs
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Posted - 2009/01/10 : 19:44:57
Haha apparently I'm not the only one who comes here with these kind of probs.
Well it all depends on you. Do you feel like getting into it ? DO you want it ? You should do what you think is right.
I think you should try it, and if it doesn't work just leave it. It's worth the try I guess.
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Wilky
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Posted - 2009/01/10 : 19:59:20
You wont kno til you've tried it mate. Give it a shot, if its not goin the right way after a few months then u can always get rid!
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Jay-Owen
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Posted - 2009/01/10 : 20:23:20
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Originally posted by DJ Revs:
I think you should try it, and if it doesn't work just leave it. It's worth the try I guess.
I think that's a rather immature way of seeing it Revs (no offense intended)
To just get into a relationship and 'just leave it' at the first sign of trouble is a very easy way of doing it. A relationship is something you can just leave when it gets uncomfortable.
I suggest Sam that you don't get involved with anyone over the internet, it rarely works! (trust me, I've tried). If you feel that it is the way to go, then go for it, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work out.
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Mortis
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Posted - 2009/01/10 : 20:34:13
If you ask me things will work out the way it's meant to. You will either get into the releationship or not, if it's meant to be it will happen if not it wont - don't force it either way...simple.
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hyperdance
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Posted - 2009/01/10 : 20:49:37
go out on a few dates or wotnot, take it slow see what you fancy.
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Smoogie
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Posted - 2009/01/10 : 22:30:28
Ok, someone jusyt told me that she has a boyfriend but he is going to prison but I have been told he makes stuff up 
Not sure where this is going & where it will end up but I will take each day as it comes. Wish me luck, I might need it!
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Jax
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Posted - 2009/01/10 : 22:33:31
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Originally posted by Smoogie:
Ok, someone jusyt told me that she has a boyfriend but he is going to prison but I have been told he makes stuff up
Not sure where this is going & where it will end up but I will take each day as it comes. Wish me luck, I might need it!
hopefully this is the punchline to the joke?!
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Meph751
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Posted - 2009/01/10 : 22:41:05
if you seriously need to come onto a forum and get advice from people who know neither you nor the girl in question... i'm going to have to go with a simple "no".
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Smoogie
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 Posted - 2009/01/10 : 22:58:19
Ok, I have got ahead of myself. Im rushing into things... I am going to go with the 'im taking each day as it comes attitude' Im not going to give a **** about what happens in the long term yet. Im going to enjoy things as they are now!
Wish me luck!
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Revs
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Posted - 2009/01/10 : 23:19:16
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Originally posted by Jay-Owen:
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Originally posted by DJ Revs:
I think you should try it, and if it doesn't work just leave it. It's worth the try I guess.
I think that's a rather immature way of seeing it Revs (no offense intended)
To just get into a relationship and 'just leave it' at the first sign of trouble is a very easy way of doing it. A relationship is something you can just leave when it gets uncomfortable.
I suggest Sam that you don't get involved with anyone over the internet, it rarely works! (trust me, I've tried). If you feel that it is the way to go, then go for it, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work out.
Umm … I just said the same as everyone else here did. He should give it a try. And if it doesn't work, it simply doesn't work, what do you want him to do then ? To stay together with her for the rest of his life ? Nah, if it doesn't work, he'll just leave it.
However, I didn't know you met her in the internet. Yeah that's … not very good then. These kind of things ( almost ) never work.
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Ok, someone jusyt told me that she has a boyfriend but he is going to prison
You better don't get involved in that :/ . Be carefull, I mean.. you never know.
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Meathead
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Posted - 2009/01/11 : 02:54:29
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Originally posted by Meph751:
if you seriously need to come onto a forum and get advice from people who know neither you nor the girl in question... i'm going to have to go with a simple "no".
Pretty much.
No offence mate, but if you cant make a decision for yourself without having to ask a bunch of people on the internet, youre not mature enough to be in a relationship.
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Posted - 2009/01/11 : 03:13:50
plus don't be the reason why the guy gets out of prison early on good behavior, being that you'll be the person he comes to see first once he gets out. most people that go to prison for violent crimes re-enter the penal system immediately afterwards for another violent crime
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Dj DeadPool
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Posted - 2009/01/11 : 04:54:51
i dont know if some 1 has allready said this but. i dont think so depending on your situation. if you r a dj i would say focus on that go out have fun live your life. but if you find a girl that is into the whole party/rave scene then bring her along and see if shes like it and stuff. but if not then i would say go on some dates for a wile get to no each other like each other before you take it another step foward with the whole relationship thing
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TypeR
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Posted - 2009/01/11 : 08:34:55
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i dont know if some 1 has allready said this but. i dont think so depending on your situation. if you r a dj i would say focus on that go out have fun live your life. but if you find a girl that is into the whole party/rave scene then bring her along and see if shes like it and stuff. but if not then i would say go on some dates for a wile get to no each other like each other before you take it another step foward with the whole relationship thing
ive been djing for 7 years and all i can say is that if you were to make it your entire life then you will turn out to be a sorry, lonely son of a bitch with no friends.
it's only music.
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Deverse
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Posted - 2009/01/11 : 09:17:09
It depends on who the girl is and what her history was like. If it's good, go for it.
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