FingazMc Advanced Member
United Kingdom
2,761 posts Joined: Mar, 2001
Posted - 2009/10/19 : 01:49:46
Love is over rated,
Lust with friendship (my definition of love) is great but it just leads to pain anger and suffering in the end so is it really worth it.....
I mean atm my best friend is female and "in love" with me and i love and care about her immensly but not in the same way. Yea we sleep together and she felates me for pictures ;) but im not IN love with her and the fact that i care about her more than almost anyone isnt going to stop me doing what i do ;) ;)
But when iv been in love before it messed me up big time. I was like a ****ing puppy dog on his masters leg, let them run rings around me and get away with murder... All in all i think love eventually = pain, anger, hate and leads to mistrust....
Great while it lasts but be prepared to get hurt!!
kathryn Advanced Member
United Kingdom
6,520 posts Joined: Apr, 2005
Posted - 2009/10/19 : 17:02:14
my old good friend is in a relationship with a woman now and i would like to know why she feels she can not tell me this
We been friends for like 28 years
TheOneNOnly Advanced Member
United States
1,937 posts Joined: Oct, 2008
Posted - 2009/10/19 : 20:21:34
quote:Originally posted by kathryn:
my old good friend is in a relationship with a woman now and i would like to know why she feels she can not tell me this
We been friends for like 28 years
If she wasn't a lesbian before hand, it can be embarrassing to come out and say "I'm gay". Most don't want to deal with what people might say about them behind their backs, and if people will make fun of them that she's known for awhile; including family.
So they cover it up, or at least try to, or not at all, and just don't come out and be open about their sexuality. Which, if I might add, is stupid to me. A relationship that is under the covers, trying to be hidden from family and friends is kind of stupid, and could put unneeded stress on the couple.
I say you go up to her and ask her who she's bangin'. Or..you could try sentimental-like, but that's boring!
Alert moderatorEdited by - TheOneNOnly on 2009/10/19 20:22:12
kathryn Advanced Member
United Kingdom
6,520 posts Joined: Apr, 2005
Posted - 2009/10/19 : 21:18:51
quote:Originally posted by TheOneNOnly:
quote:Originally posted by kathryn:
my old good friend is in a relationship with a woman now and i would like to know why she feels she can not tell me this
We been friends for like 28 years
If she wasn't a lesbian before hand, it can be embarrassing to come out and say "I'm gay". Most don't want to deal with what people might say about them behind their backs, and if people will make fun of them that she's known for awhile; including family.
So they cover it up, or at least try to, or not at all, and just don't come out and be open about their sexuality. Which, if I might add, is stupid to me. A relationship that is under the covers, trying to be hidden from family and friends is kind of stupid, and could put unneeded stress on the couple.
I say you go up to her and ask her who she's bangin'. Or..you could try sentimental-like, but that's boring!
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