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Roberticus
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 Posted - 2004/12/16 : 18:59:35
Hi everyone, new here
A very nice guy told me to post this thread in this forum because of the nice community you have here :)
Well anyway, to the point:
I have now in over 2 years  a crush on what I'd say the most beautiful girl I've seen. We have now gone up and down in 'ordinary' friendship.
I can't stop thinking of her...
and now in about two weeks ago we were about as close you could be before you could call it a relationship. Well then I don't know what happened, she just stopped having the contact with me, stopped being as funny and "talkive" as she used to be. It just seems that she has lost her interrest in me... 
Got any good ideas what I should do now to get her interrest back? 
I have sometimes tried to see if there is anyone "better" than her, but never found any... (in other words, she is the best I've found)
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KinokoBoy
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 19:08:38
You're thinking too much dude!!! Just go up to her and ask her out...she should be down with that!!
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swansea247
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 19:10:48
ive been in the same sort of situation. i know a girl who i was in college with for about two years and i just messed up any chance of anything actually happening between me and her so take my advice and try talk to her the next time you se her. she probably likes you and is unsure or afriad of what to do next which would explain no contact between you two
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Roberticus
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 19:45:53
Well, I should ask her out, but the big problemo= Im too darn shy...
and I don't really know to where I should take her and what I should talk about and that sort of stuff...
Well, I will propably see her again tomorrow (we go in different schools) so I'll try talking to her
Thx for the advices (but what would you in this situation?)
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whispering
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 19:51:17
The only advise i can give is dont be too "dependent" of her, most girls really hate that. The thing is, if your intrested in her, she probably already knows that, heh. So try talking with her, and try to find out why shes been so distant. and if/when you get an opportunity, make a move. If you really like her, then you have nothing to lose :)
Oh and if your gonna "ask her out", please dont ask her for a "date" type of thing :p People just dont do that around here. Go with her to a café, thats the usual place to go :)
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Roberticus
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 19:58:46
uuuhm, yes sorry
but Im not sure what kind of move I should take... (yes I know, I sound like a schoolboy :D)
But I'll go to sleep now, have to write some boring essay tomorrow.
But after the school I'll go meet her (If I can find her at all that is... or is she even wants to see me...). So please wish me luck :)
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Em Jay
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 Posted - 2004/12/16 : 20:08:31
want my advice? go to the park or somewhere quiet have a few drinks and that, which will subsequently make you both really relaxed and free to talk about your emotions to one another. You'll feel more confident. Also when your relaxed you can have a laugh and just chill out... do this in the outdoors like a park because then you can be all romantic with her like looking at the stars and moon, and when she gets cold, offer her your coat and even huggle up with her, dont be pushy, that may scare her off a bit.
oh and if you do say anything you may regret the next day... then you can nicely link it back to the booze 
Good luck mate.
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swansea247
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 20:08:44
good luck (ya gonna need it  )
turn up the hardcore, go on you know you want to!
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Dave Murray
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 20:26:36
quote:
Originally posted by Roberticus:
But after the school I'll go meat her
Thats the spirit!!!
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 21:08:24
quote:
Originally posted by Dave Murray:
quote:
Originally posted by Roberticus:
But after the school I'll go meat her
Thats the spirit!!!
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 21:21:13
If you say shes the MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL youve ever seen than more than likely she totally knows your into her already... Dont be a tool and be all shy and stuff. Go with the flow and if she rejects you, sleep with her freind :)
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 21:26:54
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Originally posted by tunnelrush:
Go with the flow and if she rejects you, sleep with her freind :)
"First you didnt want me to buy the horse, now you want me to take it back?! Make up your mind!"
^^ lmao.....I always reckon you just ask....It's better asking sooner and her saying "no" than waiting and building up all your hope and courage just to hear the same answer( I think it's best to expect the worst) ...Then...If she says "Yes"....YOUR LANDED!!!! 
But then again....it's always easier said than done.
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Posted - 2004/12/16 : 23:22:38
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hungryhobo
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Posted - 2004/12/17 : 02:41:44
dude a hard as it is u gotta jus ask her wut she thinks of ya. i no its hard so then get a friend to try to hook u up. have a friend talk to her and be like "i have a feelin that (ur name) likes u. wut do u think of him." then see wut she says
sumtin like that. either way the worst shell say is no. it may seem bad but there r plenty more fruit loops in the cerial box.
good luck
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cotteincandy
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 Posted - 2004/12/17 : 03:42:10
From my own experience(being a shy girl) it sounds like she likes you too, but maybe she is unsure of your feelings. I'd say let her know how you feel. Its better to take the chance than never know what could have been. Let us know how it works out too!
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Mattikake
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Posted - 2004/12/17 : 11:29:28
As Orbital's satan choon goes - "better to regret something you have done than something you haven't done". Well that's used everywhere, but it was just a lame excuse to make a quote from my favourite group. 
You need to answer some questions. NB: I'm not insinuating anything, but you have to be true to yourself.
Do you care about the friendship? Is it a real friendship or did you just get friendly with her cos you fancied her from the start? If you do care about the friendship and you ask her out and you are rejected, the friendship won't be the same again, maybe not exist at all. If you ask her out and she agrees the friendship won't be the same again - ok better, but not the same. Should the relationship end, the friendship won't be the same again, if exist at all.
Do you know any of her mates well? If you do then you could ask one of them if she has said anything about you. Chances are, if she likes you she will have talked about it.
Do you reckon you're in the same "league"? Objectively, do you think you have a realistic chance? What type of guys does she go for?
Does she laff at your jokes? Does she make lots of physical contact? Does she stroke her hair a lot? All are simple signals that she likes you and everyone does it.
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