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Em Jay
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 Posted - 2006/08/14 : 12:37:42
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Originally posted by swansea247:
i think i might have just missed a chance big time...
tonight she was down the club drinking with some friends of hers, as it was her night off, but i think i might have messed up any chance now because about half an hour after the bar closed she came behind the bar and asked me to go out to town with her. i said that i was busy and i won't be finished for another hour or so, now fair enough i think she had a fair few to drink but it felt really personal as she was holding her hand out to me really asking me not really caring about her boyfriend at all, plus she hung around for an hour and then left.
i think i might have seriously f*cked things up...
hehe not at all, you are subconsciously playing hard to get, If shes into you, that woulda made her crave you more!!
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swansea247
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Posted - 2006/08/14 : 13:01:56
^^^really? i didn't realise i was playing hard to get.
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Jon O-T
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Posted - 2006/08/14 : 15:29:47
Its sounding more likely but i wouldnt keep your hopes up, otherwise youll feel worse if it doesnt work out.
Anywho, good luck buddy! 
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 03:09:20
well friday has come and gone and now i've gone and fcuked things up... again.
here's the full story (and i'm going to use her name so it's easier for me),
earlier tonight a couple of the people i work with decided to have a couple of drinks after work at some other girls house, as this get-together was on the other side of swansea i decided not to go. but later on after work (which was about two hours before i made this post) sam, the girl i really like, at the last minute decided to go to this girls house for a couple of drinks (and probably stay the night aswell), she then drove them up to this girls place before the staff taxi arrived.
now i know what your thinking, your thinking 'how come you didn't decide to go at the last minute aswell?'. well to put it quite simply i was a moron not to think of that idea until the very last second, because of the confusion of the situation. i rushed to asked this other guy who was going, who already knows that i like sam, if it was a good idea to for me to go up, but before i have a chance to do that, they had already gone.
i was going to phone up that place and say that i was coming up but i thought that it's too late to do that now as it would look a bit suspicious, as a good portion of the people that i work with have gone aswell, and i don't want them to know how i feel about her for the time being. there is something definatly there, i have this gut feeling about it because to be quite blunt, i think that i actually love her.
so i'll like to take this chance to say this (even if she never sees it)...
sam,
if you ever read what i have written here tonight hopefully you will understand how i feel about you. i know that you have a boyfriend and i'd rather not get in the way of your relationship with him. i'd also understand if you don't feel the same way about me, but i must get this off my mind by saying that i have real feelings for you and if anything ever happens between you and this other guy then i will be there for you, no matter what.
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iluvhrdcor
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 06:43:43
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Just tell her how you feel if she's not intrested then fair enough but at least you tried.
If she says no ask for a threesome 
like he said.... except for the 3some part 
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Chris B
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 17:59:23
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if anything ever happens between you and this other guy then i will be there for you, no matter what.
Thats looser talk if i ever saw it.
Each to there own and all that but all this "i'll be there for you" aint gonna get you nowhere.
If you fancy sittin at work every day starin at someone elses bird fair play, but an attitude like thats daft if you want into this chick
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Cyborgasm
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Posted - 2006/08/19 : 18:30:46
chris knows whats up if you want her you better make a play for her, you'll get nowhere sitting around waiting for her.hell if she does break up with her bf if your not vieing for her most likely she get grabbed up bye some other blokes that is...
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swansea247
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Posted - 2006/08/20 : 01:31:34
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Originally posted by Chris B:
Thats looser talk if i ever saw it.
Each to there own and all that but all this "i'll be there for you" aint gonna get you nowhere.
If you fancy sittin at work every day starin at someone elses bird fair play, but an attitude like thats daft if you want into this chick
tell me about it, when i wrote that i was absolutly depressed, i was actually up all night thinking what to do but that didn't change anything on how to tell her. i guess i'm just not good in these situations.
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Charco
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Posted - 2006/08/20 : 04:48:06
Chris mate, You've hit the nail on the head.
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swansea247
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Posted - 2006/08/27 : 01:53:05
I FINALLY DID IT...
i finally took up the courage to tell her tonight that i fancy her, and it's quite a relief now that she knows that i like her alot. obviously and unfortunatly, the end result turn out to be what i expected but there is still a possible chance of something more.
even so that it feels alot better now that i've actually told her, thinking about it now i feel a bit sorry for myself for not saying it any sooner. but as she now knows. i feel pretty good with myself
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Jon O-T
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Posted - 2006/08/27 : 02:21:44
Well done mate! It was obviously driving you insane so it was the best thing to do.
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swansea247
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Posted - 2006/08/27 : 02:36:19
^^^ it was driving me more than insane
as a matter of fact on monday night she was working for someone else down the club where i work and i tried all night to tell her then, i obviously didn't tell her. later in the night after i got home for the first time in years i cried my eyes out, i was emotionally unstable because i could not tell her. that's how bad this affected me because i knew that this is the biggest thing to happen in my life since well... ever
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Posted - 2006/08/27 : 02:42:43
yea... but at least now that part of it all is over. Ive been through a lot of shit in the last few months and moving on isnt really as hard as you would think once you convince yourself that your going to stop trying for something to happen
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B.C
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Posted - 2006/08/27 : 02:57:47
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Originally posted by swansea247:
I FINALLY DID IT...
i finally took up the courage to tell her tonight that i fancy her, and it's quite a relief now that she knows that i like her alot. obviously and unfortunatly, the end result turn out to be what i expected but there is still a possible chance of something more.
even so that it feels alot better now that i've actually told her, thinking about it now i feel a bit sorry for myself for not saying it any sooner. but as she now knows. i feel pretty good with myself
Much respect mate, shit like that takes real cajones....keep us updated.
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Posted - 2006/08/27 : 11:08:08
^^^ will do, she's working tonight and i'm a bit nervous seeing her now cause there was a bit of a tense moment afterwards
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