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Charco
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Posted - 2006/08/27 : 13:33:32
well done mate, At least if things don't work out- you'll have learnt from this whole thing.
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Cyborgasm
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Posted - 2006/08/27 : 21:46:02
good going takes alot of courage to do that, and just cause she's not for it right now doesn't mean there isn't a shot if she breaks up with her bf or w/e atleast she knows how you feel and you can never know whats instore for you
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Mortis
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Posted - 2006/08/27 : 22:04:31
Well swansea it takes alot to tell someone how you really feel about them, well done. I hope it does work out well for you. Either way like Charco says, atleast you've lernt something.
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swansea247
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Posted - 2006/08/28 : 01:48:44
i just got back from work and everything has gone downhill. she was talking to this guy i know and she said to him that she feels guilty for telling me about this different situation before i said to her how i felt abut her. after hearing thati felt sorry for her and i talk to her later about it.
now i'm absolutly depressed because i found later that she is going to cardiff university next month for three years, so in a month's time i'm never going to see her again. i am now literally on the verge of crying my eyes out again but the pain seem to be too strong for me to do it and it making me feel worse
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Mortis
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Posted - 2006/08/28 : 06:46:40
quote: Originally posted by swansea247:
now i'm absolutly depressed because i found later that she is going to cardiff university next month for three years, so in a month's time i'm never going to see her again.
Never say never, there's always holidays, weekends ect...Why not ask her for her address and start writing letters to eachother. Not emotional ones, proper ones like how your a doing, how work is going stuff like that. It'll keep you intouch, and maybe help to get you closer to eachother.
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1up
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Posted - 2006/08/28 : 07:50:41
quote: Originally posted by Mortis:
Never say never, there's always holidays, weekends ect...Why not ask her for her address and start writing letters to eachother. Not emotional ones, proper ones like how your a doing, how work is going stuff like that. It'll keep you intouch, and maybe help to get you closer to eachother.
letters are really... really... nice! its a shame everyone uses emails today, that spirit of receiving letters has died... x(
maate! something really nice to do... oh! u can still meetup and stuff right? dude... things will be fine...
try not to overthink things... cause that'll really poop ur head...
and there are bound to be other people out there for you... im not saying you should quit, but if there are barriers like this blocking your way (b/f, distance, communication issues, etc) then it would be best to let things be. i know its hard but things will get better...
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swansea247
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Posted - 2006/08/29 : 02:49:41
thanks guys that really does means alot to me. this is the reason why i like coming on this site when i've got a problem, i express my deepest thoughts and feelings and unlike most of my real friends you actually take the time to listen and help me with my problems and that really measn alot to me. much respect.
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kathryn
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Posted - 2006/08/29 : 13:11:34
quote: Originally posted by swansea247:
thanks guys that really does means alot to me. this is the reason why i like coming on this site when i've got a problem, i express my deepest thoughts and feelings and unlike most of my real friends you actually take the time to listen and help me with my problems and that really measn alot to me. much respect.
Innit true Swansea?
I hope your alright? and things like writing and phoning are good ways to keep in touch like Mortis say's!
Yeah i have found myself in the past coming on here with problem's and there's some really genuinely good people on here!
And now i have the man of my dreams who is there for me everyday and i think we all know who that is
Anyway i have fingers crossed for you that things go smoothly for you
Good luck!
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Chris B
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Posted - 2006/08/29 : 15:18:22
quote: Originally posted by swansea247:
now i'm absolutly depressed because i found later that she is going to cardiff university next month for three years, so in a month's time i'm never going to see her again. i am now literally on the verge of crying my eyes out again but the pain seem to be too strong for me to do it and it making me feel worse
Calm down mate you were gettin defeatist before and you ended up gettin that obstacle out the way.
Also cardiff to swansea is hardly "never see her again" distance, if you do lose touch maybe but it's hardly like shes movin to japan it's still south wales.
Hope alls well mate jus take it how you feels best, you've said you like her so now shes no's.
Anno what you mean about sharin things with forums aswell, dont think i have really often but speakin to people who are outside your normal group of mates is a lot of help when you need advice or people to listen.
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